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I know there are a lot of disbelievers out there, but texting and sexting are wonderful tools.
BUT wouldn’t it be cool if you could get a girl turned on so much within minutes that she was basically pleading with you to let her come over so you could crush her guts with that giant beer gut of yours?
Let's be honest, we've all at least attempted to do a little sexting. No matter if you were trying to spice up with your current girl, or starting off with a new one, or just being a creepy dude who tries to get pictures of girls for his own private collection, you've done it. A side note to the creepy dudes, you know if you just want pictures of girl's boobs you can turn off Google safe search and literally anything you type in will bring up boobs. Try that.
Here are some steps to guide you through your sexting experience. Now I know you're excited and can't wait to dive into your new world of textual exploration but slow down. Here's your first rule:
DO have a conversation 1st!
If you're thinking about this as an approach save yourself some time and toss your phone into the nearest natural body of water because you are insane. If you're going to sext with a woman at least have some sort of conversation first.
DON'T send a picture of your dick.
According to the dozens of girls I've talked to, it's crazy how eager guys are to send a picture of their dick to just about anyone who will look. It's not even cool in the heat of sexting, it's almost a conversation starter for some guys.
Don’t do it unless she asks.
Shirtless? Yeah that’s fine, just not your dick UNLESS she asks.
And yes, it is okay to ask HER for a picture.
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Sexting is the act of exchanging sexually titillating electronic messages (WORDS!) with women. They love to message!
And the sweetest thing is you’re doing all this just by relaxing at home… chillin in your boxers AND you even have multiple girls rolling at the same time.
Women get turned on by words. Women are serial fantasists, which mean that get massively aroused by words and imagining sexual scenarios. This can give you tremendous power.
Develop your word skills to titillate her senses by talking dirty to her or in sexting’s case, writing dirty. Sexting is viewed as a prequel to foreplay; it is like foreplay before foreplay, turning your partner on even before you get into the act of love-making.
Sexting is great because it’s private. Your phone is private to you, so no one is going to read those texts unless you want them to. This allows her to be very sexual and naughty without her friends finding out and calling her a slut. Reassure her that it will be kept that way.
The key to sending a sexy text message is to keep it interesting and subtle. Do not go overboard with it; never forget it is pre-foreplay which means it is not an act of sex itself but just a hint of sexual explicitness.
In the context of sexting, less is always more. The only main purpose is to keep her wondering about your sexual fantasies and appetite.
Having said that, sexting is very sexual in its own way; there might not be a physical touch involved in it but it is like sex for the mind. And gets it ON her mind!
Sexting is, after all, a leading way to sex. With sexting, you are letting her know that you are ready for the act and what are your fantasies, meaning what all you expect from your partner, in bed. It brings in the heat factor in, and broadens the sexual boundaries between you and her, making her feel CLOSER to you. Also, some women are initially more comfortable to talk dirty or be racy on text messages than face to face.
Sexting brings in a lot of sexual tension between you and her; since it creates an SPAM of longing and desire but there still exists physical boundaries.
You set the tone and pace. It’s up to you how fast or slow you want to build things up sexually with a text and no matter how long you leave it before you reply, you will always start from that point. Meaning you won’t have to start the whole sexual build up all over again.
That is exactly what a lot of people consider incredibly sexy about a sext. It leaves you asking for more; almost brings you down to your knees and leaves you quivering with longing. It is all fun and sexy we know that. Make sure she would be up for sexting, then only hit the send button, test the waters 1st,. A little teasing and a little caution can lead to a lot of fun when it comes to sexting. Do not have enough ideas for naughty sexts, to test the water? Here you go:
50 Top Sexting Message openers.
1. What are you wearing right now?
2. Are you alone tonight? Want to play a game?
3. I was thinking about you in the shower today.
4. I will see you in a while. I have got a sexy surprise for you.
5. Panties?
6. What going to wear later tonight?
7. Let’s tease.
8. You and me, in the back of my car tonight?
9. When you are around, everything starts throbbing and it is not just my heart I am talking about.
10. I think your lips are really sensuous. I am talking about the ones I can see, you still have to show me the others.
11. If you are tired then I can give you a massage tonight. Let me know where you want my hands to work the most.
12. Want to scream tonight? Stop by my place for a little while.
13. I sometimes feel like playing with your beautiful hair… and other things too.
14. You know how to push the right buttons.
15. Next time we see each other, I am going to show you what love is.
16. I do not need to watch porn anymore. One look at your sexy body keeps me going.
17. Why are your keeping me starved?
18. Next time when I am around you, wear something that keeps me guessing.
19. I want to take you to a place called orgasm land.
20. Want to see my ’50 Shades of Grey’?
21. I am feeling very restless. Would you please come by and tie me up tonight? I will let you do whatever you want to do with me.
22. I want to force a few things on you tonight. Permission to be rough?
23. I will be your prisoner tonight.
24. Can I have my way with you?
25. If you could read my mind, you would start feeling really shy around me.
26. How can you turn me on so much just by looking at me?
27. What are your plans with me later tonight? Want to eat something delicious?
28. The next time you pass me by, I am going to tap it.
29. Your wardrobe needs to be updated. How about trying me on?
30. Let me be a part of your favorite fantasy?
31. I had a dream of you last night; you were mostly naked in it.
32. I can probably reach climax just by staring at your ass.
33. I got a whole new way to explore you. Want to know how?
34. I feel like having some peaches and cream tonight, with you.
35. How about chocolate syrup all over?
36. What were you thinking yesterday when your hands were all over me?
37. I want to be naughty with you in the office.
38. Is your folk’s home tonight? I hope not. I do not want them to hear you screaming.
39. I have got a BIG surprise for you. It is in my pants and it will BLOW your mind.
40. Thanks to your skinny jeans, I already know how your behind would feel like.
41. I feel wasted just by looking at your pictures.
42. It gives me goose bumps just by thinking what will I do to your body.
43. Are you ready to go all night?
44. Did you tell me to ‘come and get it’ with your eyes last night?
45. Would you be my prey and I will be your hunter?
46. Would you like me to take you under?
47. My favorite thing on a dessert is whipped cream. Would you let me put it on you?
48. I know what you want and I think I am ready.
49. I got a plan for the both of us, but it involves my bed in it as well.
50. Just to let you know, I am a bareback rider.
^ sexting is my favorite, good post. The only thing i would disagree is in the 50 openers, to open like that is to risky, you could use those 50 things, after, you get a feel for the girl, but to open just with one of those 50 will kill many interactions. If you are more interested in sexting, also follow my old post
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and the pump log
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