You can get laid without being able to approach and open like a madman, or at all Smile

I haven't had any time these days to properly get into the game by approaching HB's left right and center, so I've been limited to applying the techniques more so to standard social interactions. I've definitely amped up my game though as I closed 2 girls on the weekend. Long post follows...

First, I met HBdance in a swing dancing class I am taking. All the women enjoy dancing with me as I am one of the best leaders in the class, and I noticed her for her great body. Over the course of a couple classes I'd tease her when I could, and drop stuff like "hands off the merchandise" when she punched me back. One of the guys in the classes was their with his HB so I befriended him and started running with him, and generally formed a social circle with the younger students (most of them previously dating). Theres a social dance sunday nights an hour after our class, but I had a party to go to after the last class so I told HBdance "we should go to one with everybody," give me your number and I'll let you know if I can make the next. She says, "What if I don't want to" which I interpreted as a bit of a shit test since I knew she liked me. I told her I wasn't taking no for an answer and she gave me her # (probably could have done better here though). Anyway, playful texting/calling ensued for over a week as we couldn't get together, and I began to think things were going to get stale.

I told her I was going to watch a comedy some of my friends were performing at and she could join me (didn't want her to get the dating idea in her head), which hooked her. The comedy was mediocre, and she was drinking a bunch more than I (I was on my motorcycle). After the show we started chatting and she turned out to be nuts, like nuttier than squirrel shit nuts. After an hour or so I decided to make my escape but I had the gut feeling she wanted to fuck (body language I guess) so I offered her a ride home, even though I didn't really want to drive her 30 minutes out of my way (I knew I didn't have a decent excuse to get her into my place). She was as crazy on the back of my bike as the rest of the date, yelling in my ear etc, the whole time I was just thinking I have to fuck this girl and get out of here!

She'd been telling me about some sustainability pamphlet she'd been working on earlier in the evening so when I dropped her off I said she should show me. No problems heating things up once we got inside, though she was a weird kisser. Once I figured the deal was sealed I asked her if she had any condoms... I hadn't expected things to go down like this. Unfortunately, the answer was no so I had to make a blue-balled race to the nearest 7-11. I knew I could have easily lost the chance during that time but it didn't turn out to be a problem. Unfortunately now she's stalking me and I don't even want to continue sexing her, shes too crazy. Lucky she doesn't know where I live or work =)

The second close was a friend of mine who I've known for about a year. Shes 12 years older than me but we get along really well. We had a brief f-buddy relationship about 6 months ago but it only lasted a couple weeks then she got cold. It was unfortunate since shes super hot, the sex was great, and there were no strings. I think another romantic interest came along and I probably hadn't handled things perfectly. Anyway we have a good mutual friend so I saw her time to time but otherwise ignored her and chased other tails. A couple weeks ago we ended up going to the beach one evening to hang out and drink some beers. I was excited since shes fun to hang out with and I was happy to rekindle the friendship, and wasn't really thinking of getting back into her pants since it seemed unlikely. Anyway, I did my usual ball-busting and bantering, mixed in with just a little intelligent conversation. She dropped a couple IOIs for example when we got onto the topic of age (AGAIN!) saying "Your really mature for 23." I'd noted from others around here when an older woman says that its usually pretty blatant. I played it cool that day but realized I could probably get back into her pants. We set a loose arrangement to hit up the local nude beach the next hot day to drink some beers.

She ended up setting the day about 5 minutes before I was going to text her after I had checked the forecast, for the same day I was planning. Perfect! I added some innuendo and the conversation got a bit sexual, so I figured I was in. Our mutual friend joined us for a couple hours (damn, clothes are staying on!) I told a couple fresh DHV stories to them, then we played some frisbee and he finally left. HB and I flirted a bit and headed into the water, at which point wrestling and kissing ensued =) We went back to the beach to warm up, but she wouldn't lose the suit (she's pretty shy for an older HB). At this point, some guy walks by nude covered in clay from neck to toe, and she blurts out "hey its the muddy guy" partly to him. Im thinking "Oh god, its not the same muddy guy that walked by earlier, and you just opened a nude guy!" He ends up inviting us to show us where the clay pit is, shes super excited so I follow. We chat a bit and once we arrive he graciously leaves. That's right she's mine, move along =) At this point I figured "fuck it, my shorts are coming off, she'll at least lose her top and then I get to parade the HB back to our towels on my arm." Of course, most of the nude population there is pretty ugly. I give her some war paint on the face, then some on the body, at which point I tell her to lose her top at least so it doesn't get full of clay. Off comes the top and she covers up in clay =) Unfortunately now for her, her bottoms were getting messed up so I started pulling them off. She gave a little token resistance (I'm so glad to be able to identify it like that, it's actually funny now) but off they came. Victory!

Of course, no certainty of getting her home and closing her. It was nearly sunset and she had plans to meet up with a friend that night (possibly woman's false time constraint?) We washed off in the ocean, got our clothes, and headed for the car. Do or die I'm thinking as we get half way back. I drop a statement of interest: "We should go back to my place and lick whip cream off each other." She laughs without rejecting it, so I change the subject. Excellent =) She turns onto my street to presumably drop me off, as there was still no concrete plan. "How about that whip cream" - "maybe" - "park there." And the rest is history!

I think back to the night I first closed her from a club, we were dancing on the dance floor with our friend present (actually hes a colleague of mine). I used the mystery kiss close "Do you want to kiss me?" to which her reply was the same "Maybe."

I love this stuff. These interactions are logical as opposed to lucky! And we're going back to the nudie beach tomorrow... I should try to get another girl to join us =) I also think I may enjoy that nude beach more often with other girls, I mean once they're naked with you they might as well sleep with you right?