Lay #1 Blonde HB7 field hockey girl with amazing ass f-closed on 3rd date
Introduction
First of all, I want to explain why I am writing this lay report. I have been a member for almost 3 years now, but since I was in a 2 year relationship and now am almost 4 months single I decided to take this seriously. I want to become a better person and meet awesome people down the road. I have already started writing a field report which you can read here:
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So far I have had sex with 12 girls so far, but I would consider this my first lay since I seriously got into PUA 2 months ago. My goal for this lay report is for you guys to learn from my mistakes (which I will definetely make) but also for me, to see my progress and learn from the feedback you guys will gave me. I have no reasons to brag about laying girls, my only goal is to share and learn. I hope you guys will enjoy.
Summary of the lay
So let's begin, around easter I met this cute blond HB7 at a festival, we shared a couple of common friends and that's how I got into a conversation with this girl. I was really really drunk the night that I met her. The conversation lasted only 5 minutes I guess, next day waking up hangover in my tent I thought I would never see this girl again.
2 weeks later I actually ran into her again, what a coincidence. This time I was sober and we had a longer conversation, I said I had to go and n-closed. A friend of mine actually knew her and told me she recently broke up with her boyfriend and she wanted to take it easy with guys. I decided to give her some space and texted her a few days after the day I n-closed. We had a very casual conversation, I found out she was a field hockey player and she is studying psychology and is in her 2nd year now.
The first mistake I made was asking with girl out without building any comfort. She rejected my suggestion to grab a drink. I already was thinking about giving up, this girl seemed like a challenge. After a couple of days I decided to give it another shot. This time my goal was to build as much comfort as possible, this was very difficult because we were not in person. I decided to be direct and told her I liked her, wanted to get to know her and that communication trough SPAM is not working for me. I suggested to do a casual drink saturdaynight after I finished working. This time she agreed.
Since she lives a couple of miles away from me in another city she drove to the place were we would meet up. I was driving on my bike since it was just a mile away for me. During the weekdays I live in a dorm with 4 other guys, but in the weekends I am living with my parents. So it would be a challenge to get this girl back to my place afterwards. On the date we had a couple of drinks, since she was studying psychology I thought she liked tests. I did the 5-question routine and a short version of the cube since I never done this routine before. I could tell she was enjoying the tests, but this girl was very hard to seduce, she seemed to have excellent control over her own mind. After 2 hours I could tell she was very interested in me.. But I was at my parents this weekend.. damn... As I was walking with her to her car I was thinking of a plan.
I just decided to take the risk and suggested to chill at my place (hoping that we wouldn't run into my parents). When we got to my place, we first had to wait a while in her car, bacause I knew that my parents would go to bed around 11:00 pm. We talked for a while and I started to build comfort. This girl couldn't park her car at all!! she tried 3 times and still failed. I decided to make a Neg about girls and parking skills. She laughed and started to make excuses for her bad parking. This was a big IOI in my opinion. We went inside the house and walked to my room (luckily my parents were already sleeping.. thank god). I only have a bed in my room and no couch or anything, so I suggested to sit on the bad and just cuddle. After 15 minutes I went for the K-close. She was not a very good kisser, but wel.. She spotted my massage oil, (one thing that I have learnt so far is to always have massage oil in sight) I saw her looking at the bottle and asked if she wanted a massage. she hesitated but eventually said yes. I said she had to gave me a massage aswell because otherwise it would be unfair. All of a sudden we were naked. I wanted to go to the next step and take her pants of. but she hold me back.. she got major LMR and a lot of anti-slut defences (I am not that kind of girl0 (only kissing on the first 3 dates blablablabla...) I was already kinda hard and I said well I don't have those rules, you can do whatever you want with me. She started to rub my pants and after a while she stroked my cock and gave me a great BJ, even let me cum in her mouth! After an hour I walked back with her to her car and whished her good night.
We made plans for a 2nd date, this time she would come to the city were I live in a dorm with other students. Since it was really sunny and hot we decided to have a picnic in the park, maybe this was too AFC and could be a mistake. As I would discover later.. After the date we went to my place, this time we had more privacy and I wated to go further than our last date. I guess this was way too fast and I was being too needy. She said noo not this time.. I was soooo angry, I put all this effort in this date and she still was being a prude. I was to angry that I told her to go home 5 minutes later. I could tell she was really upset. I didn't care at that time.
I decided to ignore her and see what happens. She texted me the next day that she had a really great time with me and she felt sorry it didn't work out. I was playing hard-to-get, now this girl was chasing me instead of me chasing her. She started to gave me a lot of hints that she wanted to see me again.. She sometimes literally said: When am I going to see you again? I was acting like I didn't want her anymore and told her that she was too much of a prude and not my kind of girl.. She kept texting me over and over. I thought all right this is the time to make plans for a 3rd date and this time I am sure she will drop down her anti slut defence, LMR..
Yesterday we had our 3rd date, she went to my place again and we cooked some dinner. I downloaded a movie to watch but in the middle of the movie she was already touching me everywhere and we started to make out. She told me she had a personality test that day, regarding her psychology study. She said that one question was: How important are principles for you? She said that she thought they were important but when she made the test she discovered that there are not that important as she thought before. I knew this was a free pass to fuck her, it was so obvious. I started to take her clothes of and rubbed her pussy for the next 50 minutes of the film. She was to wet at the end of the film.. and I grabbed a condom which were also insight just as the massage oil. Finally after three dates I f-closed this HB7 blonde field hockey girl, and it was worth it. Best ass I have had so far!
Sticky points and mistakes
- Don't act too needy, especially the 2nd date I wanted it way too bad, girls can smell this..
- Make sure to always build enough comfort over SPAM before a date, I was lucky this girl was really interested otherwise I wouldn't het another chance to ask her out
- A tip, always have massage oil and condoms in sight. Massage oil is excellent for kino and a condom just so the girl will know, you will do it safe and are prepared if things will lead to sex.
Thank you guys for reading! I hope there will be many many many more lay reports to come, I will never end learning and hope to meet amazing people down this road.
CHAT