For the sake of education and learning, i'm going to break this down as much as possible.

This is someone that i knew for a while, we went to college together for about a year before i transferred to another school, we kept in touch over the course of another year before i went back up to visit her.

When i first met her i was slightly intimidated at first because of how pretty and built she was, so honestly at first i was surprised that i even became friends with her, but that is neither here nor there

When i went to see her, i didn't expect to have sex but i did want to.

So things started out well. Me, her and 2 of her friends hung out and did things together for a while until we returned to her apartment and we all went to bed about midnight.

Me and this girl started cuddling so this is when i started to escalate...

Me: We could blah blah blah right now

Her: yea we could...

Me: *smooth deep voice* Your call...

That set her off, but to save to explicit detail this is what helped to lead up to that moment.



*Push-Pull* The times she wanted to be touchy-feely, i was also for the most part, when she acted cold, i let her be


*Social Validation* Her friends and her family thought i was a very attractive man, which validated her getting with me.


*Kino-Escalation* Started safe and than started to touch more once things started to escalate.


*Havin' Balls* ... nuff said


And honestly just being myself

Me: Hey you wanna see a picture of a rabbit i hit with my car the other day.



On a personal note, this helped me because i learned more of my seductive and sexual strengths and weaknesses, including being able to pick up on body language or being too forward.

Also I learned more about women and how they liked to be pleased and realized what i had to work with. This was a good confidant booster, she was a solid 8 and it was a major confidence booster that should help me with the future. This also makes number 2 for me.

Questions? Comments? Criticism? This is why the forum is her, have at it.

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