| Here is my first real-close field report in London after being here for one and a half month. I hope you guys might find it useful.
So I met this Spanish HB7 girl in a bar and that is how it happened.
I've been there with other players during Bootcamp night which gave me a good social proof. Two other guys opened the set of 4 girls, then I popped up in 10 minutes. Basically I spent only few minutes with them doing exchanging names and had a small talk. Suddenly the guys left the set so I followed them coz I was uncomfortable keeping on the conversation with girls. In fact only one of them was good looking. Afterwards, one more beer made me very social and brave so I decided to approach them again and concentrate on the best girl in that set. When I came back I found one weird boy sitting at the same table and doing nothing but looking somewhere so I asked who is that boy, she replied have no idea and told me whether I want to sit with them or not. Obviously I replied positively. Then we started talking and dancing a bit. Apparently that boy was not alone as few more chaps came along, so I switched my attention to those guys and basically eliminated them of the game. Then we started talking and dancing a bit. Apparently that boy was not alone as few more chaps came along, so I switched my attention to those guys and basically eliminated them of the game. In total I spent 1 hour with them and was going to a smoking area occasionally together. Worth to note I stared a bit of kino, like touching arms and taking her hand. Also I was talking to other people in the bar or smoking area at the same time, which again showed my social skill to her. At the end, the phone number was something obvious to happen so it did.
Before I arrived home she sent me a sms saying it was nice to meet me and she hopes to see me again. Unfortunately I fell sick for one week so could not see her. Ironically when I was good again she burned her belly so one more week we had to wait for the first date. In the meantime we were exchanging messages quite a lot and I found myself good at it.
So for the first date I planned just to have coffee, but we ended up drinking tea and going for drinks later on. Conversation was going smoothly sauced with humor from both sides as well as kino from my side. Worth to note that I nearly had a fight in bar with one ginger for joking him She told me I was not nice, but whatever. Probably could take her home, but it was late and I did not have courage to do it.
Again a lot of sms and I arranged to go to cinema. We had a lot of fun and I started to tease her. Close to the end of the night when we were eating in Fridays and she told me I was a bit rude with her in one sms (basically my last message was "Deal then. See you <name>" to what she replied "See you <name>". U also think I was rude? ). I started to behave negatively and being indeed rude with her, which was a mistake. But it was more then rectified but super positive ending of the night. She started to call me Mr. Rude occasionally. Well I was not lagging behind and gave her name too
A lot of sms again...in a day she invites me to go with her best friend to a club. I brought my mate as well to the club and we were dancing, having fun and kino. My dress and new hair style she found sexy as she told me inside. Later on I told them to move on for some food. We ended up in MacDonald’s and fun continued. There was one incident though - I started to say something and then stopped coz I realized it was silly. They insisted I prolong, but I refused, then her friend said I have no balls! I said, "what?". Then they both told me I have no balls. Well, it was a fire in my head, I just stand up and told my man we going saying "Bye girls". Once me and mate on the street I deleted her number and all messages and went home. And what do u thing? In few minutes those girls running on a street without their heels and my girl crying in the meantime. Well, it was a drama...Anyway, she took me in a dark corner and gave me a filthy kiss for 5 minutes. At that point I was tired and astonished so just wanted to go home and take a rest.
So, u should not wonder that we had a lot of sms again. In fact, I knew she is mine, it is just a matter to tell her to come my place once we on a date one more time. But somehow I just wanted to prolong it and called her to go play games with me in an entertainment center. After we played games we went for sushi, or rather “susi” as she call it. She never ate one so it was fun. Note, I did not plan to close her but wanted to go to a Drum & Bass event in the night with few mates. So just took her to a park and we kissed for 20 minutes. She told me I made her wet and whether I choose between her and Drum & Bass. I choose Drum & Bass. haha.
Sms as usual...At this point I was horny and planned to close. Just called her for a drink. The pub was near my place so I just tell her - "Let's go to my place and listen to some music". She smiles and says "Yes". Obviously it was happy end at my place. She was only complying why I did not tell her before the date we were going to my place so she could have taken better underwear
Now when I go back and think what made me doing that:
- massive comfort frame
- social proof
- she liked my look and clothes
- kino
- humor
- teasing her
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