Hey guys,

Background infromation:

This is my first 'real' post and it's about an experiment I did. When I was an AFC -+3 years back I managed to get into a relationship with a girl. In this relationship my now ex-girlfriend had alot of guy-friends who sometimes 'chilled' with my gf. I never liked this much because I always knew the guys liked her more than just a friend.

When I confronted my ex-gf with this she always said, "no, I'm just normal friends with them. I don't even like them, don't worry so much." I did worry and got very annoyed (remember I was an AFC ). I kept telling her man and women can't be friends. I didn't have any girl-friends at that time. So I thought, well I'll find a girl-friend and just be 'friends' with her.

The experiment

While I still was in my relationship (2.5 years ago) I picked out a girl from my former school and started to be a friend of her. I talked with her alot, was nice, never to flirty, just 'friends'. She was in a relationship and I was in a relationship. We even watched movies, did fun stuff and all that, as friends.

It was working out, we were just friends although I was wondering about fucking her..

Months later, my ex gf and I broke up. I still talked with my 'friend' who was still in a relationship.
Time passed and a year goes by. After my ex-gf I never had a gf anymore because it's not for me (pua lifestyle ). I started to get into pua-ism and all that and I talked with that 'friend' of mine again. Who was now single as well.

Well guess what. I think you can already see what's coming but we fucked. Of course. All this time I was attracted to her and she was attracted to me.

I know for most people this is very obvious but I just wanted to share my story. Maybe this isn't a good experiment because I only did it once. But I was convinced of it and I still am.

If she's hot enough to fuck, you can't be friends.

Although I'm still friends with this girl. But we have sex now too.

Let me know what you think.

Louie

It makes sens to me. I can hardly be friend with a girl to whom I'm physically attracted to. If I'm friend with a decent looking girl, there will always be this idea of fucking her in my mind.

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I can tell you right now this is not true, only under certain circumstances. I met a girl that I work with and hangout with her every now and again. I consider her a great friend, me and her have no attraction for each other.

She is kind of hefty and I wouldn't touch her with anyones dick on this website. I think it is rare but it is possible.

I agree. It is possible but only if you're not physycally attracted to her no?

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Check out this video.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_lh5fR4DMA

If you aren't attracted no harm. Honestly no one wants to touch someone they aren't attracted to sexually. If the person thinks the friend is "cute or sexy" then that's when shit can happen.

Only exceptions are the girlfriends of my close friends. Those are definitely just friends to me out of respect. Otherwise, pretty much yes.

Its like the video said, its a one sided friendship. Chicks know what they have, meaning they feel like they hold some power, so they think they can be friends with a dude, when a dude is totally into them. However, they don't want to approach that subject because they know when they need that guy for something important discussing that shit, will just screw it up.

I have friends that are girls, however I carry myself in such a way, that I don't worry about that situation very much. To many fish to worry about maybe fucking one of them.

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