I posted this in a different thread as three separate posts but figured some might put it to good use, enjoy


ey guys, so I recently created this opener that I thought I'd share with you guys. It's been quite successful for me and can easily be pulled off with the proper attitude and game.

Approach girls: particularly one
Hey, can you help me find my girlfriend? Start describing the girl in front of you starting with her hair, skin and eye color. Describe her drink if you can recognize what it is. Describe her outfit (if you're feeling really confident describe her body, curves, bust and ass) and then finally ask her to stand up and ask, "how tall are you?" She will say a height example: around 5'7 then you respond "and she's 5'7" then give a big smile or grin letting the girl know you described her and say "hi, my name's blah blah I'm glad to have finally found you"
From here resume with your natural game. If you did the the intro correctly with good acting skills and confidence when you reveal that it is her (make sure not to be insecure when you let her know that it is her that you are describing this is key part otherwise she'll think you're a creep. Make sure she knows its a joke or an ice breaker usually a smile and gentle state will do the trick as you are unveiling her as your target) you will have a great chance of engaging in a deeper conversation with this individual and make sure to bring her friends into the conversation. Usually the friends love this opener.
It has only failed once for me and that's because her friend was a lesbian grenade and decided to do everything in her power to get me from finishing my opener, so I just walked away from that situation as it was lose/lose but not without style: "I'm sorry, I have to go as I can only allow myself to be interrupted so many times. Btw you should think about investing some time in finding new friends, as you're not gonna have an easy time meeting guys with this dyke around" and walk away with style




I like to call this one "The Ryan Gosling"

Guy: Can I buy you a drink?
Girl: No, i'm sorry, thx though or I already have one.
Guy: I'm going to get you one anyways (signal confidently to the bartender to get the girl another drink)
In the meantime, ignore eye contact with the girl and ignore what she is saying (I told you no, you're wasting your money) and so on
Then look at her give her a grin and say, "Sorry, I don't believe in taking no for an answer call me a dick if you will" By the way, my name is...blah blah and go from there use another pick up line from this thread to engage in conversation and make her laugh as she is probably agitated that you were ignoring her request of being left alone yet intrigued that you're not willing to give up on her. Sometimes a girl will reject you in buying her a drink because she's having a bad night already and she thinks oh here's another asshole trying to pick me up with his money (I actually had a gorgeous friend admit this to me). Make sure you don't win her over with that but with charm and charisma if you're going to pull this off as it's a counter-neg to her subconscious mind. She'll more than likely be dazed and confused by your actions and that's when you take advantage of her fragility and go in for the kill.

However, make sure to recognize if you are pushing it too far. If she is with another guy (BF, Fiance, husband, etc) or if she's just really really not interested then take the drink from her hand and say, "I'll be taking that" and go find another prospect

Also, one time I pulled a ballsy move and grabbed the drink from her hand and chugged it. Then right as she was about to claw the shit out of me, I said, "there, now you have to take my drink as you're not getting this one back unless you beat me up--(being playful here)" Then I grabbed the drink and put it in her hand and pushed the straw towards her mouth and said, "tastes good, doesn't it?"
Her girlfriends laughed their asses off and she was still a little butt hurt but I saw the grin on her face and then I took advantage of it. I ended up bringing all three of the girls back home to my place that night but didn't engage in any sexual activity. We just drank, laughed and played board games all night. Genuine fun. After that, I ended up dating the girl for a good 3 months until I found out she was an emotional wreck. Anyhow, just pointing out how far a simple opening with good charisma can take you.





Walk up to a group of girls and approach your specific target

Guy: OMG can you please do me a favor. I just lost my phone and the last time I remember using it was right where you guys are seated now. Could you please call this number for me XXX-XXX-XXXX
*important to note that again you have to pull off a good act. Make yourself believe that you actually lost your phone and need help finding it. The girl will more than likely comply if you sold your act well. At this moment, once she hangs up, with a suave motion, pull out your phone from your pocket and shake it in the air and say, "and that my ladies is how you get a girl's number at a bar/club" --with a grin on your face
More than likely they will all find it funny yet impressive.
After that opener you can use any line really. I usually just say, "Now that I have your phone number, can I at least buy you a drink and get to know you a little better. I don't like to call people whose name I don't even know..I'm blah blah by the way and handshake"
Again, it's reverse psychology. Instead of the girl saying those lines, you say it for her. It's always important to keep the girl dazed & confused as well as interested that you just keep surprising her line after line. It doesn't always have to sound scripted but always throw a curve ball. It's important that you take control of the conversation. Cut her off at times if you have to in order to get your lines and point across until you see that she is being swayed and has become interested in you. That is when you put the ball in her park a little and let her talk about herself cause unless you're a standup comedian, no girl wants to listen to you talk for hours.

These are some good openers, I like them.
But it's a really thin line between intrigue & her thinking you're a creep.
Do you have a backup scenario in mind when you fail to pull it off?

I don't think I've ever had a girl think I'm a creep especially since I don't do the "you resemble my mom" type of pick up lines. Also, I go into every situation extremely confident--go big or go home.

Backup scenario if those pickup lines above don't work? They hardly fail for me because I only use them on special occasions but in general, if my pickup line fails i'll try to recover with something of the complete opposite. If I start off with a compliment, my second line will be a neg and vice versa. Usually i'll try to do a palm/mind reading or engage in a drinking game cause most girls will allow you to buy them a drink if you're decent looking alone. I like to make physical contact. There's just something about the human body that is extremely mysterious and erotic when it comes to physical touch.
Especially if you touch a female's erogenous zone--every female has different erogenous zones some are on the neck, some are on their lower back or arms. If you pay closely to her facial expression, you will be able to find out quickly. In my experience, i've learned that each girl is different. A pickup line is just an ice breaker most of the time you can say anything just to engage in conversation--ex: you're beautiful. It's how you proceed after the pick-up line that determines the outcome of the pickup
This is proven countless times when guys start off with completely idiotic intro lines and then recover.
One thing that I have noticed is that EVERY girl has always enjoyed a fun and playful pickup like a drinking game or palm reading or magic show...they always get a kick out of it
It also depends on mood a lot. Hers and yours. I remember some nights i'd go 9/10 and others it would be 0/5 and I'd just get the hell out because I could never get myself in the zone. It's all about how you present yourself. It's like being in an interview 24-7, you're always trying to impress and outdo your own ability cause girls like flair.
I'll be honest, I'm a fairly good looking guy so when a female is into dark handsome guy, it doesn't take much to pick her up; however, in order to close the deal properly, that takes game. That's where The Game kicks in. Anyone can open, but it's how you close that's important. I can get a girl's number but more than half wont remember you the next day unless you left an amazing impression. You also have to know your boundaries when is it ok to go in for kiss, ask for body shot, ask to take her home. Unless there's major physical contact, I won't ask a girl to go home with me. She needs to be feeling those hormones rushing through her blood stream--that's where physical touch comes in again. That's what I'm all about.