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Masturbating before intercourse tends to make you last longer. Also, if you are good at your foreplay (fingers, licking etc.) it wont really matter if you orgasm quickly since she'll be ready for it.
Before you start taking pills and chemicals and fuck up your system to solve this, give it a shot with trainig urself:
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there is a muscle like between ur balls and ass, its the muscle u use to stop peeing in the middle of peeing, im sure u know what i mean, ur taking a piss and when u want to stop u squeeze this muscle, it will also make ur penis jump a little, u can make it dance lol. well if u exercise this muscle enough u can stop ur cum from cuming too, i used to be able to hold myself from ejaculating and maintain my erection, and do this several times in a row until i finally threw in the towel, to exercise it just like, tense the muscle for a few seconds release, do it again and again for like 10 times, and do that maybe 3 times, and also try doing long flexes of it, for like 10 sec long, these are the ones that will matter, cause when ur about to come ur going to need to flex it strong and for a good chunk of time till the feeling passes and ur safe again.
This is part of taoist method of training the PC muscle but the main aim is circulating your sexual energy back to your body for health maintenance.
Simply known as semen retention.
Another way is to squeeze the penis at the base and tip of the head when you are just about to get to the point of no return ( ejaculation/orgasm). Then there's the
million dollar point betwen the anus and penis, use two fingers and press just before point of no return.This will stop you from ejaculating.
The taoist method is quite involved, it requires you to masturbate to just before point of no return to know your own sexual response and using a combination of pc muscle and deep breathing and mental visualistion to channel this sexual energy up the spine and back down through the brain and back to the dan tian or navel region.
One important thing you need to do is turn on the energy switch by having your tongue touch the roof of your pallete in front of the teeth,this connects the energy circuit of the microcosmic orbit which has a bidirectional traffic, ( back and frontal). Of course you will not succeed the first time but in time
you will be able to last and have multiple orgasms as compared to only
one shot of the normal sexual expectation of most men and conventional thinking.
The taoists advises against exessive loss of sperm as it constitutes a limited resource of a male.There is a mistaken perception/belief that the body can replenish this sperm or sexual energy indefinitely,if that is so why does one grow old and die? PLease read the masturbation posts ( health n fitness section )for more information.
BTW taoists observation is that the male is quick to be stimulated/orgasm but the opposite is true for female ( slow to boil ),she may not be fully satisfied if you come in one minute.Of course longer foreplay and external stimulation helps.
That's why such training ( semen retention ) is required.
link to forum of practicetioners :
http://taogathering.ning.com/forum/topi ... -and-semen
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