Something Chief said in the Need Moderators topic affected me. I cannot advise people on pick up unless I talk about my scene too. So, here's without ado, my first field report.

I don't consider myself a PUA. I am a Natural but I find whatever this concept of "Pick Up" is, it's interesting. To be taken with a bit of salt, but life-changing when properly applied. Anyway, to stop the philosophy and getting on to the topic..


Had a blazing row with my girlfriend last night. Long story short she told me that she never wants to see me, hear from me and all that. Now, I love this girl, she's an 8 at most with looks, but her personality sets her up to be a 10, in my world.

So, I just walked out of her place, deleted her contact info, blocked her facebook and the whole nine yards. Not lying though, I still missed her.

Now, how to get out of the impending funk was the question. Picking up women was the easy answer. I am a student in the University here. A lot of women go to my college and well, I wasn't paying much attention to them (cause of the relationship; I am a loyal dog that way) but today, I just let loose.

Saw this amazingly hot senior, a HB9 ,as people here say. Petite, long straight hair and amazing breasts. She was standing with her friends.

Walked by her side, looked over my shoulder..

Me : That's some good make-up you got there. Must've taken hours.

Her : Thanks! Want any tips? You look like you could use some.

(Oh, a fighter. I love them kind)

Me : Gee, you think so? Thanks for offering but I'd rather take shaving tips from you. Seem to have done a great job there.

(At this point, I realise maybe that was a neg too hard. I was hoping for a "fuck off" or a slap or even worse being hit by a shoe, didn't show it on my face though)

Her : Haha. No one's ever been that way to me before.

Me : What way? Honest? I believe in Gandhi.

Her : What's your name?

(And the rest as they say is...)
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Long story cut short, got her number. Something didn't feel a bit right, though. I just chalked it to being out of touch with my game.

Lunch Break time. Had a half hour. Saw this girl, another 9, total whore.

Me : Hello. I just had to come up to you and say you look gorgeous.

Her : Okay... (giving me a 'get lost' look)

Me : But your shoes are terrible, sweetheart.

Her : What? Why?

(Got her hooked)

Me : I don't know. They spoil the whole picture. So, what year?

Her : Second. Electronics. You?

Me : Instrumentation & Control.

Her : Oh.

Me : Something tells me studying either of that won't help me when it comes to you.

(Cheesy as heck, but come on, I couldn't resist)

Her : Oh.. (blushing, stumbling, stammering)

Me : Haha, anyway, nice talking to you. Hope to bump into you another time.

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Well, didn't get her name. Didn't need to anyway, the whole college knows her. Also, didn't give her mine. But, she will find that out on her own. Make 'em work sometimes. Didn't want to get too deep with her, because she's got a boyfriend who's a freak and gets guys beat up and such. Don't want that on my mind.

But, the thing to be taken from that approach is that you can get away with saying ANYTHING, if you are in the right frame. Nothing is too cheesy or too direct. It's all about your frame. It always is.

Still, I just didn't get any satisfaction. Two approaches, two successes.

Man, I still missed my girl. No contact from her side though.

Anyway, went back to class and thought about how I was going to game my senior. Engineering can be mind-numbing sometimes. Take it from me.

However, just before the college was scheduled to end, my phone beeped.

"I am sorry. I want you back. Can you come over. Please?"

Sometimes, you can feel the relief flowing out of you. No points for guessing where I am writing this from. (She's in the shower, we just had make-up sex and it is indeed as good as they say).

Sometimes, meeting twenty women and having sex with ten of them isn't the solution. Sometimes, people do fall for other people. It's NOT wrong. It's NOT a disaster. If you like someone, try to make it work with them.

Love is NOT a bad thing. It's fulfilling.

Good Luck to everyone.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "