Hello all. I am Bodega, I am 20 and I live in Nottingham.

All my life my main passion aside from football has been girls. Everywhere I go, everything I do, I have girls on the brain. I'm sure many (if not all) of you can relate to my mindset.

Anyway - i'm going to be posting a log of my nights out and my general field reports, hopefully it will keep me on track in my long run goal, which is be remove all AA I have when approaching girls, and knowing exactly what to say and when to say it. The only way to master this is a lot of practise. So if you don't mind, I shall be writing here to vent my thoughts and also hopefully receive a little feedback in the process.

I will start with this weekend, as it was very hectic. Any thoughts, critisism or encouragement you have for me, please do share.

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Behind the lady who dances and the man who madly drinks, i'll show you the truth about love.

Field Report - Friday 22nd July

A friend that I hadn't seen in months was back from University and I didn't realise, so I thought we should arrange a night out together. He shares similar passions in life to me, and is really into girls. I told him about PUA and how he should wing me tonight and see if he likes it, as he is very shy and therefore not really used to approaching people. The thing is though, he's naturally a very good looking guy, and I knew he would be handy to have around.

We originally hit a bar, and being a Friday it was quite dead, due to the fact Saturday's are much more popular. We were drinking rosé wine and I was feeling it a little bit.

Suddenly, this really cute girl walked in, lets call her HBSileby. She was probably a HB7 but something about her really turned me on. I said to my friend "in a minute, we will talk to her and her friend", who joined her after getting a drink from the bar.

My friend went to the toilet, so I approached their table and sat down saying "excuse me girls, i NEED your opinion..." after getting both their attention and they looked intrigued, I used the "my friend has loads of photos of his ex in his room, and a new girl he's seeing feels slightly uncomfortable about it... what should he do!?" opener. Admittedly it's canned and it's risky, but it really got me locked in. My mate then came over once he returned, and joined us. I discovered the one I was sat next to had a boyfriend, but the other one, the target, didn't. I quickly got her number and said i'll text you later and find out what club you're at.

After 10-15 minutes, I received a text from the travel agent who booked our holiday last week, asking if I was around tonight. See funny-number-close-from-booking-a-holid ... highlight= for more details on that one. I knew that I could f-close her tonight.

Truthfully, I was too drunk. I had drank 6 glasses of wine, 3 double disarrono and cokes and 2 shots of sambuca so I was a little worse for wear. My game was a little shakey and that showed in some of the texts I sent to HBSileby, eg 'I want to kiss you xx' - eek!

We headed to a Wetherspoons. I had just checked my phone and I had a text from a girl who I used to have a thing (non-sexual thing) with when I was like 15. She was out tonight with her Dad (lol..) and wanted someone to hang about with. We met her for a drink, and after a little bit of push-pull flirting I got with her infront of her Dad. I made sure I had won him over first after a quick chat about football and work.. so he didn't really mind! I could tell this wasn't going to lead anywhere, as she was with her Dad and I had HBTravelAgent to meet, so we said goodbye and left.

Me and my wing headed down to Vodka Revolution. I told him I was planning on going back with her, he didn't mind if I did, as he had a few people he knew in town. We met up with HBTravelAgent and her friend. Her friend wasn't too receptive, she had to be up early as she had work in the morning, and she's an air hostess. Straight away I went for the kiss close, she moved her head away and said 'not in here, I can't'. So I replied 'okay, let's go back to yours.' and took her by the hand. I f-closed her, and stayed the night.

When I checked my phone, HBSileby had text me saying "meet me outside mcdonalds in 5 minutes." followed by "you should of come to mine.." - and I really think I should of. Although it was my aim to f-close HBTravelAgent, HBSileby would of been a better close, plus probably my only chance of doing so. But i've been texting her and she's out on Saturday night (next week), so we'll see!

Pro's:
A f-close, from a MILF who booked my holiday.
After a drink my AA seems to completely go, and i'm getting better at n-closing.

Con's:
You shouldn't have to rely on drink for confidence, and drink affects game.
Friday's are too dead, and there aren't enough sets about!

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Behind the lady who dances and the man who madly drinks, i'll show you the truth about love.

Field Report - Saturday 23rd July

After a heavy Friday night and a hangover, going out tonight was one of the last things on my mind. However I had promised my friends I would.

After a few drinks at my friends, we headed down to the same bar I was in the night before. The DJ at this bar is gay, and he gave me a bottle of champagne for free. He did this the week before too.. so I'm starting to get a little worried, but hey ho it's free alcohol!

This bar was absolutely rammed, and not in a good way either. It was getting a little awkward, and i'm slightly claustrophobic, so I left and went to a club.

I walked in, observed the scenerio inside, and didn't really like it. There were way too many guys in here, and it was too loud considering I had a bit of a headache. I went to go outside and meet a friend, but on the way out, I decided to try something. I walked up to 2 girls and said "pick a number 1 to 10 in your head". They replied "okay...." I then said "it's 7 isn't it?", they both said it was, and one exclaimed "omg how did you do that!?". As I was drunk, I fed them with some bullshit about me being psychic. I told them that I can also tell they're both willing to give me their numbers, and therefore told them to put them in my phone. They both did. One flaked, the other text for a little bit the following day but nothing came about it. I was possibly too drunk and didn't build enough rapport in the 2 or so minutes I was with them for.

I love this opener, and used it 5-10 times in the smoking area of the club. I don't smoke but for some reason I was smoking cigars. I don't know what it is about the number, but about 75% of girls would say 7. After a quick conversation I would usually eject unless I really liked the look of them.

I started talking to this guy and girl, purely in my quest to rid of AA, when my wing said 'Bodega, these two here!' referring to 2 girls stood on their own having a conversation. I then ejected the M-F 2 set and opened the new 2 set with the following.. 'excuse me girls, we aren't from around here.. where is good to go after this place?' - they seemed quite receptive and interested. After a while we were getting bored of this club, so we invited them back to my friends. They seemed VERY edgey about doing this. Maybe we were that drunk that we didn't build enough rapport, but the C+F persona we were giving off had them interested.

We bumped into 2 girls I know on the walk back to the taxi, they DHV'ed us saying we were good lads and wouldn't take advantage, they eventually came back. However, they wouldn't do ANYTHING apart from share beds!?! I wasn't happy. The girl I was with said it was due to a bad experience at a festival, and she'd happily go on a day 2 with me and take things from there. But i'm not too sure if I'm that fussed.

We gave them a lift home in the morning. They were nice girls but I was quite unimpressed with that. Girls who do that annoy me greatly.

Pro's:
We opened SO many sets, including mixed sets. However yet again, it was admittedly down to alcohol.
A few n-closes and I brought a girl back, who genuinely seems interested despite the lack of action.

Con's:
My game was hot and cold tonight. I probably seemed needy and irritating to a lot of people.
Don't open a set saying you aren't local, then take them back to your mates house.. it's somewhat strange
STOP DRINKING SO BLOODY MUCH!


If anyone in this area wants to try day-game with me, or infact, any game, let me know. I'm so eager to get better and I think we could learn from each other.

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Behind the lady who dances and the man who madly drinks, i'll show you the truth about love.