ok so i met this girl in a nightclub and # closed her we then texted for a bit and i went out with her on wednesday night the date went relativley well but this is my problem...

ok so when i was out with her i was talking to her about her holiday which shed just come back from, she said shed met this guy on holiday and that was all. But as the night went on she said shed lost her virginty to this guy on her holiday(were both 17 its not that big of deal for her to have been a virgin) This didnt bother me but then she says he was thinking of coming over from england to see her( i live in ireland) i was like thats creepy use r only 17 bit wierd him paying so much money just to see u for 3 days she then replied but we got really close on holiday.. so i changed subject and got her thinking about me again but she texted him every so often during the night. anyway i kiss closed her a few times during the night. Then at the end of it i said to her i wanted to see her a few more times before i go on holiday but is there any point if this guy from england is coming over she said nothing serious was goin to happen between that guy and her and there was a point me seeing her again. im meeting up with her on saturday again but i get the feeling shes losing intrest in me and i think its because of this other guy.

Any advice how to get rid of him or get her attention of him and on to me?

My only advice is next time u see her surprise the fck out of her. Just go completely Alpha and nothing else if she even brings him up just ignore it or say ''So are you on a date with him or me?''

NaturAFC

look if the problem cannot be resolved u may need to resort to boyfriend destroyer

are you coming of as too boring?

but if its not a huge problem and you still have attraction with this girl you may just need to show a larger display of alpha male behavior and even if she tells u shes going somewhere don't get angry this will make you seem needy instead just say have fun or something like ill just be hanging out with (insert girls name here) if you want to get that jealous streak out of her although some risk is involved in this)

evean if all else fails a women should never be placed first on your life

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