| Last night gentlemen started a little rough for me. I went to my usually spot, a club, and thought I'd put more of my dance skills to work, that way I could work on my dance and my seduction skills at the same time! Well things didn't go so well for me. I got rejected 5 times. Now I tried a few different approaches, I tried asking the girl to dance, didn't work. I tried extending my hand towards hers, as if making an offering to dance, didn't work. I tried dance next to a girl and merge with her dance, didn't work. Basically nothing I said or did worked. So I thought, rather than keep beating my self up rejection after rejection, I'd go sit down next to some friends of mine, and enjoy the rest of my night.
So after a few hours, we switched venues. Well at the next club I ran into some more of my friends. Well one of them wanted to dance with this girl, but she was with another girl. So he asked if I would dance with girl B, while he danced with girl A. Now the girl wasn't at all my type, but I thought hey why not help a friend out. So we approached, and he started dancing with girl A, and I tried to Dance with girl B, well she rejected my offer to dance. At that moment I was like “This is fucking bullshit, I am going to go sit back time.” Well as I began to walk off the dance floor, my buddy grabbed me and asked where I was going. Told him she didn't want to dance with me, and I was going back to the table. He literally, I have a bruise from this, threw me on to the dance floor at her, and for some reason this time she took a hold of me and we started to dance.
So as the two of us began to dance, I began to mix up a few dances I know, did some Hustle, Merenague, Bump and grind, and the last thing I did was I 'dipped' the girl. Well She absolutely loved it. It fact she loved it so much that she began putting one hand up my shirt and her other hand down my pants. While this sounds like it should have ended with a happy ending, I had one problem with the girl, I did NOT find her at all sexually attractive. However, I had fun over all and learned a lot.
Things I learned:
First, again, just because a girl rejects you at first it does not mean it is not on, just means that at the moment she was not interested.
Second, sexually escalating with dance seems easy.
Third, I've notice that I do better when I add the social aspect to my approach, instead of just asking the girl to dance, I talk to her, get to know her, then ask to dance. I believe that my love of being social is a strength of mine that I should play.
Fourth, I have this feeling that I need to work on my Body language. I have had a few friends tell me that I 'look' uncomfortable at times, even though I'm really not, and I believe this might have something to do with my posture or some unknown body movement that I am mindlessly doing.
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