So I’m new to forum, but not to the game. I have never felt the need to ask the mass but I do feel like this is a bit of my jurisdiction.
Quick Background: Go out to downtown club on a party bus. Lots of random people and friends on this bus. Get there: dance, drink, mack. Repeat. I’ll save you the details. Fast-forward end of night as we look for our bus. Spot a girl – HB10, asked her if she’s on the same bus as me. Talk, a bit as she tells me that she’ll stick with me to find the bus. She puts her arm around mine, I tell her that’s not how I do things. Told her we need to actually interlock hands as I grabbed hers and led us towards the party bus. When we get in, it’s very crowded. There was one seat available, she tells me I can have it in which I offer it to her. I attempt to get her to sit on my lap, which she kindly refuses. So I let her have it the seat Just then, two of my girl -friends offer me a seat as they bunch up just across from her. I sit down next to them and start talking/flirting, as a flock of guys surround my target and attempt to game her. I don’t look at her, and proceed to enjoy myself, the music and my friends. My target attempts to get my attention two times by saying my name indirectly towards other people. Note: This is why women are the best wings ever, in which one of my other good girl friends tells her “I’m the best, blah, blah, blah” After some time passes, my target comes up to me and says something about not wanting to be hit on by this guy. I tell her to sit on my lap. Attempt to grab her hand, she plays hard to get. I then go direct, cold-read, tell her some philosophical shit about (my game) in which she responds “that was really good, deep, blah, I’ll hold your hand” Talk to her for the rest of the trip about some BS, my friends are now getting jealous, both sit on my lap and put their head on my shoulder. Inadverdant, wingwomen for the win! Leave the bus, she’s slow to leave talk to her after, attempt to number close. Could be a shit test? But a soft rejection. She says I’ll see you around, look me up on facebook, or I’ll look you up. Swap last names.. I think to myself this is gay. Threw my game off a little, forget to close and leave with my friends.
I’m not a huge facebook guy, since I had to clean it for work search purposes but look her up. Turns out she’s a model with a solid fan base. I sound AFC, but do I friend/message her? I’m pretty good at reading people, and I know she’s interested but a little hesitant. Or should I wait for her interact with me? I’m thinking of sending a strong direct message with my number and just leaving the ball on her court. In retrospect, she totally told me to facebook her so I can see that she’s a model
Sticking points:
Never forget push-pull even when it seems like you’re in the green
Had I been more direct and persistent for number close and stayed steady I would have gotten it.
Forget to escalate kino