you are doing good, is a sprint not a marathon, look dude, dance with the girl as you dance couple of songs, focus on dancing and having fun(do not talk much just dance), make the girl have fun, then little by little caress while dancing right hip then left hip then grab her opposite hand so if is your right hand grab her left hand spin her counter clock wise land the hand behind your neck(spin move) watch it in this video minute 8.38 this dude make it complicated but is what i am talking about
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xZ6khhUI ... re=related after you do that spin move look seductively to her eyes then lips, then eyes again lips again come close WITH NO HESITATION, and kiss seductively...do not watch porn in your phone you do not need to be all horny and shit, your problem is over thinking, and lack of confidence... stop say you look good irrelevant if you can not close, and if you can not close your game is not decent...cool!
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