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me: I don't a lot of time on, i have to quickly get back to my friends, but i just wanted to let you know that you're one of the most gorgeous women i've ever seen,
and i would of literally beaten myself up if i didn't work up the courage to come and ask for your number.
So, first off - WELL DONE for getting out there and having the confidence to be very direct in your daygame approaches. This stuff takes a lot of courage, and tons of guys struggle just to do the approach, let alone have the girl actually stop, listen, and be receptive to them!
That said, here are some things that could improve your chances
1. You don't need a false time constraint. This isn't indirect and this isn't nightgame. Just throw it out. Replace it instead with a preframe that grabs her attention, describes the situation and/or sets her up for the compliment. For example "hi, listen, I know this is a bit random, but..."
2. You don't need to go for the number that quickly. From HER perspective, she'll be thinking "why does this guy want my number when he doesn't even KNOW me?" When you DO call or text, she'll be like "oh, that guy, well, I don't really know him, I dunno if I want to risk 2 hours on a date and have him turn out to be lame...I'll just not reply." From YOUR perspective, why are you asking for her number when you don't know anything about her? Sure, she may be attractive, but what if she's actually really boring, or fucking retarded? Do you want to waste your time going on a date with her if she turns out to be lame?
=> After the compliment, have a conversation where you joke around a bit, flirt, and find out things about her whilst talking a bit about yourself, maybe telling one story about something random or funny that happened to you, and getting at least FIVE things about her so when you walk away, you can say "yeah, I'm looking forward to seeing Jenny from X town because she's studying psychology which I'm really into, she's got a really quirky sense of humour and loves Woody Allen films, wants to start her own business and I love independent, professional girls, AND just happens to be really fucking hot!"
Keep at it and let us know how you're doing!
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