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my question from here is... since i didnt build much comfort (besides the one deep conversation we had and the little bit of kino escalation) where do i start with this girl? I'm new to this shit lol do i start where we left off or do i need to build attraction again? Basically... will her feelings from that night still be the same today?
There is something i do to start convo, which i call "tagging". Basically, i grab 1 little thing she said on the night we met, and i start by calling her for that, usually hyperbolically. Example:
- she said she likes rock music: "Hey Miss I wanna be a Rock Star when i grow up... just listened to this song in the radio and you poped in my head."
- she said she didnt like sushi/rock/dancing/alcohol/ ... whatever: "Hey Miss 'i sushi hater 2011, im craving for sushi and you came to my mind"
You can use something she said, something she did, she does, she likes, etc... the point is to recall that moment in her head and automatically trigger the emotinons from that night. Also, you show her you paid attention to a certain detail, and she will most likely laugh. Dont rush into a invitation for a "date"... joke a little and then SUGGEST a meet up for something SPECIFIC just like the example given by WiseEYEZ.
Let us know how it goes... keep it up!