I have major AA, but today I came home after work and felt really hyper and happy. I live in a city where I went to university (but work here now) so all my close friends are at home so I've never felt as if this place was in my comfort zone.

Anyway...my friend bought a hat today and he was getting a lot of compliments off girls (he isn't good looking at all, but his hat was major peacocking which attracted attention!). I'm a good looking guy but I don't really use any props so I should probably sort this out.

Anyway...two of my female friends joined us (I've been with one but she has a boyfriend now, and I know her friend is interested in me) and we danced. I'm trying to move away from dancefloor game and sarge targets, but a tall slim blonde (HB8 possibly 9) started to dance with me. I'd had a few drinks so I went with it and we danced pretty sexually and I was feeling her everywhere (kissing obviously). She asked if I was straight though!? I have both ear lobes pierced but was wearing an earring in only my left ear tonight (the straight one). My hair always has to be perfect and in place so perhaps this effort gives off the impression I am gay? :S I am a pretty boy. My friend looked totally lost (remember he got compliments because of his hat and even a number from a girl who had a boyfriend apparently, but nothing came of it. He's not been laid in 3 years!). I took her to another bar where we danced more and I fingered her. She was loving it! After the bar closed she couldn't come back to mine, but I was able to get her number and that was it.

While this was a good result, I didn't have to make any effort to initialise conversation with this girl so I can't really count this in high regard. After my friend was getting compliments on his hat, I was feeling really low and depressed because I wasn't getting attention and I'm good looking. I realise he was peacocking with his hate because nobody else had a hat on in the club. I thought of Mystery with this head garment and goggles then realised this is why my friend was getting comments on his hat I was just there like "Wtf? Talk to me!". It's not because girls thought he was good looking, but rather because he was unique and stood out from the crowd.

I didn't need to run any routines on this girl. She was all over me and I knew that so it was just a case of enjoying the night.

I have MAJOR AA though. While this was a result, the girl came to me and I didn't need to make any moves. I realise I can't rely on my looks (and I don't) and need to open sets. I just find that in the moment I freeze.

I'm happy something happened and I kiss and # closed, but I didn't need to run any routines or open her.

Thoughts guys?

I need to stop being a pussy and open sets!

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