| saw this girl the other day who was a complete BITCH to me back in high school. to be frank, i was NOT the person then that i am today. now i work out at least 3 to 4 times a week, my confidence level is exceptional and improving, my goals are planned out on paper, etc. ANYWAYS, so i've had 2 beers and for some reason that entire DAY, i was on fire. opened a number of different sets, and i WANT someone who knows what they're talking about to please brutally critique my set's.
1. first approach, i wasn't even trying. my friend has a childhood friend that he introduced me too, who just happened to be with HB 7.5 (target). she was wearing pink, which is like my cryptonite. could NOT stop staring at her boobs. how the f do i get over that stupid noise?
2. walking around the bar, on the outside and i see inside two smoking. hot. TWINS bazzle... twins. ZERO approach anxiety, i walk up and sit down. i sit there for a second, and sit back smiling and looking right at the blonde twin (she shall be blondie, other twin is brun). they both looked EXCEPTIONALLY BORED, so i opened with, "wow. you two look like you're having a HELLUVA time." Body language is saying, 'you two look bored and boring, but im here to rescue you.' big smile on my face, not overplaying it but just letting them know i'm happy and confident. they're like YEAH! we're having fun blah blah blah. they tell me they're twins ( i actually didn't notice this before i walked up, auto pilot said hot chick and i flew right in ). blondie asks my name and spontaneity had me spit out the word "amazing." things are going really well, they're students at the local uni until.... DUN DUN DUUUUN. the twins have a brother, and the brother has a date! the brother is clearly. not interested in me hitting on his sisters. so i attempted to disarm him, tried to win over his interest but this morose mother fucker looked sooo unhappy i could feel him sucking my happiness away. it was a trip. I suppose i should premise this by saying that i had taken the bro's date's seat. so what was a 3 set (with me) is now a 5 set. not. enough. chairs. and the place is too loud and packed for extra chairs. SO! i stand up and give the lady her seat back. (my mother beat me into becoming a gentleman) and then i put my hands on the table, leaned forward on it and continued talking for a while. the bro is TOTALLY freezing me out. two questions: how do i disarm the AMOG? i read about it in 'the game' by neil strauss but i have yet to find success in that search bar up there. and the latter of the two is how do i win over the brother (cause if im in with him, i got the bitches by the britches)?
3. and last but not least, the best part. my old junior high nemesis. we'll call her She, cause thats close to her name. this braud used to go OUT OF HER WAY, to make me feel small, pathetic, ugly, unworthy, etc. so before i even realize she's in the set i'm opening, i walk right up to them. (all i thought was 'ooh, two cuties by themselves, time to rescue the damzels!') so i did a completely natural opener, i was like 'holy shit, SHE?!?! i haven't seen you in forever! etc etc.' and we hit it off really well. it took her a second to remember my name (she did) and when she did she literally SCREAMED and was like OMGOD, GIVE ME A HUG! after telling me 'you look so good' at LEAST a dozen times (no exaggeration) she even brang up the fact that she used to give me shit all the time and it was pretty fucked up. her words. i said yeah, but i don't regret a second of it. in my opinion you can do either 1 of 2 things in every situation. empower yourself, or devour yourself." i asked her what she's doing nowadays. then i asked her how that makes her feel. it was something that sounded fairly boring (so when she said it makes me feel GREAT! i gave her this look like... really?) she asked me what goals i had and i laid em on the table. she asked me if i drank and i said '...occasionally, but i've already had a few tonight.' so here's my thoughts on the outcome. pretty much dominated her. i didn't use a routine on this whole thing, all natural gaming. (thank YOU, Mr. Deangelo.) she asked me if i wanted to get a drink with her, i said no (cat string theory?) and told her i was gonna go back to my boy's. oh, and her date walked in. it was his 22nd birthday and i EASILY could have c blocked him, but on somebodies birthday that shit seems wrong. even though he was stupid drunk. he saw me talking to his date and didn't say a thing, just looked like he was about to puke and walked away. that was about halfway through the shindig. oh and the frame was, 'talking to random people while being confident, secure, and dominating.' i definitely succeeded. this was undoubtedly the best day of my life. i went to a rennasance fair prior to this evening out, got lipstick on my face from a half dozen different women at the venue, not to mention the AFTER PARTY. and the icing on the cake was just FORCING who i used to think of as bitch #1 (cuz she had a sidekick) into not only wanting me, but turning her down just as easily!
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