me: oh ok, this is my stop here, how about i get your phone number and we can meet up some time?
her: well i dont really like giving my number out (i looked and laughed)
This is a shit test. I would have gone with a C&F answer like "what are you afraid of? I promise to only call 11 times a day" or "nah, next thing I know I'll start getting calls from people trying to give me a bigger penis. You can write it down here." *hand her a pen/paper.
But you got a text anyway, so it wasn't needed here. Moving on.
As for responding to her text, you asked her to message you back and didn't really say much else. Again, my response would have been to do the C&F (I'm a big fan of David DeAngelo, if you can't tell. lol). My response would have been something along the lines of "Depends on who this is. If you're a 42 yr old man trying to get me on a deserted train, no. If you're the sweet young lady I met the other week, then perhaps." A little long for a text, I know, but you can shorten it down as needed. Another good response would be "Haven't decided yet. Sell it to me.

" Again, lots of options. Best of luck!