Went out Monday and I've felt a shift the last 2 weeks and I've started saying and doing what I felt natural to me regardless of what anyone thought.

I went out Monday sober because I didn't have time to pre drink and I was with a few mates, first few clubs didn't approach anyone but felt in an ok state.

I spoke to a girl in the next bar cause she was with a guy I know and we vibed well and joked about I didn't feel any need to impress her. I spoke to a girl in the cue for a bit and went into the club.

So I was dancing about but still acting chode and only grinding on a girl I already know and she has a bf but I wasn't thinking about trying anything just doing it for fun.

So then I'm just dancing around and see a girl and just go straight up to her and start dancing with her..grinding with her...30 secs later get with her then leave her...

I'm talking to 2 girl friends (1 who I was dancing with earlier) a bit later on dance floor..they're texting and look out of vibe...I turn round and see a girl and start dancing with her...make out with her twice in like a minute...I didn't even say a word to these girls and it felt great...I left her too...I wasn't really interested in either of them...the first wasn't good looking and a bit fat..the second wasn't bad at all..

I was glad somtimes too..earlier on in the night a girl had a go at me as I walked past her (maybe I knocked her I dont know) I just glanced and laughed and walked off...on another approach I think the girl had a boyfriend and she got had a go..did the same just glanced, laughed and walked off.

My approaches were low though, maybe 5 in the night. I spoke to a girl on her own at the end of the night in the smoking area and it went ok..we had a chat but I could tell she was tired and wanted to go home...I think what I did do well was I just introduced myself, shook her hand and left her....maybe another week when she's in a better vibe she may remember me..if not who cares it's another approach.

But my point would be, even after 2 makeouts I still didn't feel like approaching girl after girl, but my confidence has definitely increased. It was a good night and I maintained a good frame all night.

I need to approach more, simple.