Hello everyone,

LONG THREAD BUT PLEASE BARE WITH ME!!

THE RELATIONSHIP I HAVE WITH THIS GIRL
Hooked up during summer time (a lot) then she went to university in another city and I stayed where I was.
My feelings grew on her but decided to move on since I thought it was an one-itis, gamed couple chicks to get my mind off her but she was still "in there"

(we'll call her Amanda)

I really need help on this one and I want your honest opinion.

So I went to a party last night, I got invited by Amanda (the one i like) who lives on university residence (I live in a city nearby, maybe 35-40 minutes drive)

I was pretty drunk at the party and so was she,

When the party was dying a bit I wanted to go to the washroom but figured

someone was already inside so I waited...5 minutes...7 minutes...then my

impatience really grew on me and I knocked on the door to know if everything

was ok. To my suprise, Amanda was in and she only opened a small gap of the

door, when she saw me she told me to get in. I asked her, couple questions like

"shit are you okay, its okay if you wanna puke" but she just wanted to be "alone"

and apparently did not puke.

We made out a bit in the toilet, and she said "I miss us!!"

I did not reply to this one but it got me thinking, so we left the bathroom and went

to her room, locked it and did a couple of naughty things.



Remember we were both pretty drunk, but I know some of you will say "yea she was drunk so it doesnt count" but i know this night hints me to a lot of things

(we acted like a couple)

Then while cuddling she was telling me a bunch of stuff like

Amanda : I really miss us, and I really miss cuddle and kissing you

ME: haa really, same, I actually really like you

Amanda: Yea me too but you know, i dont think im looking for a relationship and im pretty sure youre not too

Me: what if i am?

Amanda: So you want me and you to go exclusive?

ME: Maybe

Then the convo died and I honestly just wanted to go to sleep
(it was 4:30am)

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The next morning, she kept cuddling and kissing me (i dont think she was drunk anymore) then when we got up, we started talking like we always used to, like good friends.



Now can you guys tell me what the hell i should do here?


She finishes exams in a month so I dont wanna give her the stress to ask her if she wants to be in a relationship with me.

Im really confused and say to myself things i should do then i go and try do it but i think its a stupid idea and end up not doing it

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Defining progress of evolution:

Being in an uncomfortable situation.

dude, just play along that all i can say, listen, if there is one thing i really learned from dating girls, make her feel you dont need her as much as you do so she dont use it to her advantage.

she is living i a residance, she probably will meet a lot of other guys, so if do anything wrong she will just find someone else.

keep doing what you do and she will want you. also, woman make you feel as they are hard to get till you have sex with then they cant leave you lol.
i know its rude but its true, cuz one you have sex with them, they cant leave otherwise they will feel like a slut!!

my xGF we broke up during final, cuz of the stress, plus the bitch was pmsing.

anyway, keep your feeling for you DO NOT show her that you have strong feelings, what ever you guys have its got to be balanced.

goodluck man, i told you what i know and you make your decision