| Ok here's the situation its a bit of long story and it's actually my first post.
Currently I work in a men clothes store and you get many men purchasing clothes for themselves and on certain occasions you get a few HBs that pop in now and again either looking for clothes for either their brother, their dad, their boyfriend or their husband. As you can guess it's usually their boyfriend or their husband.
Around the first week of December fook knows what day it was but it was sometime around a quiet midday. When I was folding some jeans on a table, in front of me was this HB7 with her back turned reaching for a hoody.The first thing I noticed was her ass in some tight black leggings as she was reaching up (lol). I decided to go in and try my luck. This is a good opener that I thought of if you're working in some sort of retail shop like a shoe or clothing store for example to find out right away if they might be seeing someone:
Me: You alright there you wana try that on?
Her: (smiles and laughs) its not for me
Me: lol i know im just messing. Who's it for it anyway, your husband or boyfriend?
Her: (laughs again) I don't have either its for my brother
After talking to her for a good 7mins talking crap about what looks good etc, in my mind i was really thinking I wanna squeeze that sexy ass of yours and see more (lol). I decided to get more personal and asked her questions like where she was coming from where she worked etc. She told me she worked at a school which was a station away from where I worked and I was like 'ahhh I wana work at a school too. Maybe if you give me your number you can tell me more about how to get into it'. She agreed to it but because I was working at the time I couldnt get my phone out so she took my number down instead.
A few hours later she must of given me a missed call then later sent a text saying 'Soz bbe cald u by mistake tryin 2col ma m8... lol:)' Obviously she was trying to see if I gave her a fake number or not and I was like no problem blah blah. We exchanged a few texts throughout the night about every half an hour to an hour or so. I would mirror the amount of time she would text me to show that I wasn't too needed.
The next day in the evening she sent me a text about how she accidently texted someone who had the same name as me before her first text. I was like what was it about then she called me abt 3mins later explaining then we spoke for abt 20mins talking about each other. For about a week we would exchange texts and talk on the phone but then texts eventually got shorter compared to the first couple of days.
On the 2nd week after meeting her she must of visited my workplace twice. The second time she visited me we agreed the night before that we would have lunch together during my 45min lunch break so she came down to visit me after she finished work at midday (she was only a part time assistant at the school). We had a good time exchanging words and she said I was nice. Along the conversation she must of said that 'people should go out with those that are the same race as theirs'. I added, 'i use to be like that but im open to different people and keep my options open'.
I probably should of left it there since it seemed as though she was only into people that were from the same country as hers. I began to lose interest then texts and conversations started to die out. I would let her always text me first and make the first move because everytime I suggested we should hook up she would say she wasn't allowed out since shes from a strict background even though shes 24 (I'm 25 btw) One day she sent me this text:
Her: Hey bbe howv u been?
Havnt heard frm u so I'm
asumin u probably dnt
wana kno me. Anywayz if dats da case I'm not gona
hassle u. I dnt like txtin first
alwayz nd dan gettin a
reply bk its like I'm da only
1who wants 2kno bwt
wots happenin.. Hpe ur
o.k. T.c.
I responded and said its not like and that it was more than that. With my previous relationships I gave them too much attention to the point they found me clingy and got put off, so I wanted to do the exact opposite this time. After she heard my reasons she felt kinda touched then we started speaking again as normal...ish.
Problem with her is that because she's on a pay as you go phone, she would always text me to say ring her because I have minutes on my contract phone and I dont usually ring people anyways. But here's the main problem and what annoys me. When she says ring her I would ring her within 5mins, not right away so i wont look like some dog chasing her. When I do ring its engaged even though she said to ring her. I text her saying its engaged ill call later, then after a few minutes she would be like call her again and never comes up with a valid reason. Not only that other time when we're in mid convo she would cut the phone completely saying her mum just walked in, and this happens every so often.
Around the second week of January or so on a friday evening we had one of our normal convos over the phone. The next day i wasn't bothered to contact her so i texted her on a sunday... no reply. Text her again on that wednesday wishing her goodluck on her driving... no reply. The next thursday she sends one of them random chain messages saying that I miss you but i didnt respond.
After having no contact at all throughout mid January through February she must of sent me a text saying how she was ill in hospital that time for not getting back to me, how its been a long time etc gave me one missed call I didnt bother to respond.
Here we are now in the present
This Tuesday 15th March i was standing by the front of store where I work greeting customers as usual. As I was looking over outside, it was like seeing a ghost. We were both shocked to see each other and I told her to come in. It was the first time we saw each other since that time in Pizza Hut in December and its now March. We spoke face to face after a long time and briefly about whats been happening. For some reason I told her to give me a hug because its been so long since I havent seen her. I shouldve been rutheless for all the shit shes been giving me. Because my managers a prick he said 'make sure your serving customers' when he saw me talking to her. She then left because she didnt want me to get in trouble and told me to ring her when i get home. We had a short convo over the phone but she still hasnt been clear as to why she was silent for all that long. The next day we spoke for abt an hour where I did most of the talking about things that have happened at work etc and we felt kinda comfortable with each other. One thing she mentioned though was that she said she hadnt been kissed in her long time. I said well maybe next time we meet you might just get one.
The next day Thursday 17th March I was having lunch in my canteen until my college said I have a visitor. It was her unexpectedly and I had 15mins left of my break. We went to the womens store opposite and she was asking what she would look good in if i chose it and said she'll let me see what she looks like in it. Couldn't find anything unfortunately. She kept touching me on the arm as if she were happy to see me, and because I get excited easily I was feeling slightly wet down below (lol). Afterwards we went next door to the 02 store because she said she wanted to get an iphone like me as well. We sat with a sales advisor spoke to her for a little bit, we had a good short time and she kept touching me and giggling while we talking about the phone tariffs. I eventually had to go back into work and I kissed her on the forehead before she dropped me into work.
Later that around 4:15pm i rung her during my tea break, had a short a short convo with her but then she said ring her back in 2 minutes, it sounded like she was running for the bus. I called again in 3 minutes but no answer. I text her saying im going back into work and that Ill call her later. About 7:10pm I tried calling whilst waiting for my friend to pick me up to kill time but no answer. At 9:58pm she said call her. I rung her but then the convo didnt really go anywhere. Every so often she would keep me on hold for like 1minute, I could hear the background of the tv then she would pick it up. I know she wasnt with a guy because of her strict nature at that point but she could of been texting one or doing something else I have no idea to be honest. After talking for abt 10mins she cut the phone off without warning. I texted her saying kmt, and she responded with her mum walking through the door. Half an hour later she said ring her back but didnt bother...................
Ok people so from what you have gathered if you've read this far, what do you think is up with this situation? What is she doing? Is she interested or not? I texted her that night saying I would ring her the next day saying that we should talk properly (but didnt do so) I feel as though shes just using me to kill time or when shes bored. I wana get back at her or something and hit her where it hurts the next time she texts me. Im known to be a decent looking guy, a nice person, but unsuccessful in relationships and dont need this shit.
(p.s if some points dont make sense my bad, i spent over 2 hours writing this and couldnt be bothered to proof read lol)
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