First of all I haven't posted here much so just to let you know I see myself somewhere in between a full-fledged PUA and an AFC. I had a very interesting weekend so I thought I would share. It all started this Friday night (well it actually started on Thursday but then it would just make this post even longer).

Friday night was a night that some of my friends and friends of friends had been planning for some time. The plan was to have the guys meet at a dive bar in an upscale part of the city and the girls were going to meet at the wine bar across the street. Then we would meet at one of the nicer clubs in the city. Unfortunately, one of my friends, that was organizing the whole thing got sick so the guys ended up being super disorganized. So I sent a txt to the woman that was organizing the female side of the event. She said that we (me and one other guy) should go over there. So we arrive and there is already about 10 women over there and one other guy. Anyways the girls are drinking some wine and mingling, so I figured I would start gaming on the organizer thinking if I could get her attracted to me I would DHV and it would help me in the long run. After about an hour the female organizer mentions that she is "tired" and that her and her co-worker were going to leave. So she asked if I could help organize the rest of the people that were going to arrive and pushes my number to her friends that haven't arrived and I had my friend (that was sick) do the same. So I walk up to the club with about 3 guys and 8 girls. We get there a bit early order drinks and have a seat at on of the larger tables at the club. So we start to mingle and talk meanwhile my phone is exploding with texts from people who are lost or wanted to find us, etc. Once most of the people arrived I decided to get up and dance (some of our friends were already dancing) but it really felt like a High School dance with a few people dancing but most were in a circle just standing around. So I just jumped into the center of the circle and busted a few moves to get the night really started. So we all start dancing and having a good time. That's when one of my friends/wings said that there was a bachelorette party over in the far corner of the club. I commended him on his observation and went back to dancing with the group. After about 20 or 30 minutes guess who decided to start dancing? That's right the bachelorette paty that consisted of about 4 HBs and one non-HB. Going from the largest dance circle in the club I walk over and stated "Hey you girls must be with the bachelorette party!" They all looked rather puzzled that I would know this without talking to them and proceeded to nod their heads and say yes. I pointed to one of the women of the group and stated "You must be the bachelorette! Right?" (She was wearing a fuzzy white tiara which was a dead give-away). She giggled and said "How did you know?", I stated my observation about the crown. A minute or so into the converstaion one of her friends pulls out a deck of note cards and starts shuffling through them. She picks out a card and hands it to the bachelorette. I asked at this moment "Hey, what are those?" and she replies "Oh she", referencing the bachelorette, "has to do things." At this point the bachelorette comes up in front of me and starts grinding into me and I said "Oh I can guess what that card was about." After a few more minutes they mention they need to go to the bathroom and walk away. So I go back to the circle of friends and keep dancing away. Then another chick starts to approach me, so I start dancing with her (even though I wasn't interested) just to increase social value more. Finally the HB that I had been talking to early, during which she stated she wanted an "adult weekend." approaches and asks me to dance and naturally I accept. So we start dancing to some tracks and I start the kino escalation and we make out. Shortly after I ask her if she wanted to go back to my place and she said no. I counter with "You said you wanted an adult weekend, what's more adult than that" and she replied that she was just having fun at the club. So we continued to dance and I continued to escalating at the club for about an hour. Up until the point where she was moving my hands all over her body and making me play with her clit on the dancing floor and grabbing my dick. At this point it was right around closing time and I mentioned again- "Hey we should get outta here and go somewhere more private." She replied- "I'm going home to my place tonight and you're going home to your place." At this point I had enough of the mind games and simply stated "Fine, have a good night" and walked away (feeling rather AFCish). I was still dressed to the max so I went home and quicking changed to something a bit more comfy and went to an after-hours party about 30 minutes away from my pad. I opened on a few women there and number closed two of them but nothing too interesting happened.

Saturday I sent a txt to one of the solid number closes I had from Thursday night, she mentioned that she was busy working but would have time tonight. So I offered to take her out for ice cream and she accepted. I ended up stopping by her place and picking her up so we first went to get ice cream and then were going to go to the park which had a nice little lake that I thought would be rather romantic. However, I failed to research that the park was closed at night so we ended up going to another smaller park with just a kid's playground equipment and ate our ice cream. I had also packed two small salads which we ate together and just chatted. Next she suggested that we take a walk so we proceeded to just walk around the block while holding hands and laughing. So we got back to the park and my car and she mentioned that she was "tired" and asked if it was ok if we could call it an early night and I said sure, but to make it up to me she would have to give me a kiss. So we kissed and I took her home. I got to her place and made my move but she wouldn't go farther than a kiss and said good night and went home. I was rather annoyed by all of this and again felt very AFCish, so once again I went out to different after-hours party which is much like rave so I brought my glowsticks. So after about an hour or two of waiting in-line I got inside and started opening sets on people as I was there stag and I wanted to DHV. I got semi-recruited by a dance crew that night and exchanged contact info and then I went to the VIP area to give light shows to people where I ran into a glow sticking crew. So I am doing my thing and giving light shows to people (a common thing) and this HB9 comes up and asks for a light show. I started to give her a lightshow and I was rather surprised that she continued to talk to me during the lightshow as usually this goes on after the show. So we continue talking and finish the lightshow and I ask her if she wanted to relocated and chat some more. So we and start talking at a table for a half-hour and she eventually reveals that she wears a chastity ring for her parents (one of which is a minister) but she has already had sex with a few different guys. At this point I try to hold back the face and continue the conversation. After talking a bit more she reveals that she is bi and has one of her friends here that she has hooked up with and proceeds to point to a HB7/8 sitting at a table across the room. At this point I check my pants to make sure my dick hasn't melted off and I proceed to mention that she should introduce me. So they talk with me for a bit and then mention that they need to go to the bathroom but will be back. I continue to go on giving lightshows to people and at one point I have a crowd of about 15 people watching meanwhile she comes back and sits on some AFC's lap. I have seen this behavior before, trying to instill jealousy in to me . So instead of going over and talking to her I go to a couple of tables away (still in sight) and giving lightshows to those people and talking/sitting next to them. Once the end of the night is near I go over and talk to her again and I asked her what her plans were for the rest of the evening and she mentioned that her and her friends are going to have a long trip home (a few hours drive). So I offered the polite thing and said they should stop by my place. She stated "maybe" but her eyes were telling me something else . Anyways we start to walk towards the dance floor and there is a huge line to get there. Meanwhile I start talking to her friend to build some attraction which might help out later and she starts talking to another AFC. Meanwhile I'm busy talking to her friend and we get to the dance floor and she starts dancing with this AFC. So naturally I start to dancing/grind with her friend. At this point the lights come on and the four of us start walking to the front of the club and I mention that they should come back to my place and they agree. But he guy came too . So we caravan it back to my place (it's about 10 AM) at this point. So we get here and start giving each other massages (guy's giving the girls massages) and vis versa along with talking to each other. After talking to them some more I am a lot more interested in the HB7/8 so when it's her turn to give me a massage I say "Hey I'd be a lot more comfortable on my bed instead of the futon" (in an effort to isolate). She agrees and we go to my room meanwhile the other guy and HB9 are in my living room. So she starts giving me a back rub and I mention that the front of my shoulders are sore so I turn over and take off my shirt meanwhile I rub her legs a bit. I get the triangular gaze so I move in for the makeout session and we start to make out and then eventually she pulls away and states "This is going too fast, I just met you." ASD FTL! Anyways the day goes on and eventually we get coffee together, sit and watch the clouds go by in the grass right outside the pad. Meanwhile the other guy had passed out and the HB9 was sitting inside pouting. I tried to re-engage her but she was just flat out trying to cock block at this point. Finally HB9 states that she needs to go and that HB7/8 needs to drive her home. So we walk towards the door and I get a hug and kiss from HB7/8 and a hug from HB9. The guy wakes up and goes home. After they left I go and find that HB7/8 left her wallet at my place with her driver's license. So I give her a call and she walks in the door and the first thing she does is grab me and starts making out with me some more. She said "I really want to stay but I need to take her home, but can I come and see you again?' I reply sure and take her to my room and give her the wallet. She walks to the front door and makes out with me again and we start necking and then she stops and says "Oh now I'm just being unfair, sorry but I really need to go." She gets in the car where her friend, HB9, was sitting the whole time and they leave. We now have plans for this weekend. So it didn't all end poorly. I really need to work on my sexual framing some more.