Hey guys,

I've got something that I need help with here -- I've heard a lot of opinions, but I wanted to see what you all thought.

Anyways, I'm a photographer based in Saint Louis. I'm 23, live in a great part of downtown, livin' the high life and doing tons of great stuff. I've been single for about a year now, just playin' the field and no one's really sparked my interest for a relationship until about a week ago.

Anyways, I found this girl in my apartment building (I KNOW...) and she plays for the symphony. Long story short, I open with a few negs when I first meet her, peak her interest and after getting her number, arrange a photoshoot. During the photoshoot, I'm taking charge and being the center of attention around my assistants, and she's diggin' it.

At the end of the shoot, she's totally taken. Drops her number with me and says she had an amazing time. So, a couple of days later, I drop her a text and see if she'd be up for a picnic in a couple days, since the weather was supposed to be nice.

Well, 2 days past and the weather turned out crummy. So I set up an indoor picnic inside my apartment, wine, the picnic buffet, music, prints of her photos, everything -- the WHOLE nine yards.

Anyways, after about 2 hours, I play the "2 truths 1 lie" game with her. The first two things I give her are a truth and a lie that she knows, and then for the 3rd one I say, "I really wanna kiss you." She goes "God I was hoping you's say that."

Long story short, we end up making out in my place for a couple hours, and even go to third base.

At the end of it, she's all excited and heads back to her place to go practice for a performance coming up later that week. I send her a text the following day, saying I'd had a great time and would love to see her again. She responds later that night and says she did too, and would love to.

Now...

Somewhere between that day (5 days ago) and now, something fucked up completely lol.

I send her a text the following day, shooting out times I'm available for next week and say let's get together Tuesday since the weather's going to be 100% sunny.

One day passes... no response.
Another day passes... I don't text.
3rd day passes... I call, leave a message.
Fourth message, I don't text or call.
Fifth day, today, I still haven't heard anything.

I don't really get "oneitis" over a girl, but she's totally got me. She's an amazing girl and I'd really like to date her, and hopefully start something up (wow, thought I'd never say THAT one).

I did, however, leave out a small detail... she's got a boyfriend. But the concierge (my little spy) told me 5 days ago that she had a crush on me, and that her relationship with her boyfriend (wasn't that serious, according to my mark).

Where did I go wrong fellas?

Tomorrow's my day off and the day that I texted her that I was available.
I'm unsure what to really do now... I know I'm "supposed" to move on and say fuck it, but I seriously haven't found anyone that I like over the past year, and I've dated a lot of girls.

Is there any way to salvage this and get her to dump the boyfriend?
Would really like to.

Thanks in advance and looking forward to what you guys say!

C