Hey guys

So I started learning pick up like 6 months ago, I've done a lot of fucking reading and not enough applying.

The last 2 months when I go out on a Saturday I hang with these 2 girls (one is single and one of my best mates sister and the other had a bf) we vibe really well and I make them laugh.

So it comes to this saturday, I tell them I'm meeting my friend in town and they offer to share a taxi and I agree. I pick them both up in the taxi and immediately we start flirting (holding hands with both) teasing one and the other...we pick some guy up on the way and he's really quiet but a nice guy..I'm friendly but continue to flirt with the girls with positive reactions...I maintain complete eye contacts with both without saying much at times and keeping a pretty straight face.

We get to the first club and I'm keeping hands held with the girl with the bf and keeping a good vibe and basically acting like I don't give a fuck. I end up walking into the girls toilets with them and getting a bollocking off the bouncer, we flirt and dance bla bla...I try keep holding hands with both of them and they respond quite well...

We goto the next club and I purposely tease both by dancing with one and then the other...they tell each other to fuck off in a jokey way but we're vibing well still...they both kiss me on the cheek numerous times after I say 1 is better at kissing than the other...trying to get them to prove themself...

So then me and the one with bf goto another club after she says she thinks her friend is there...we dance for a bit...few times some guys try chat her up...I don't react...I either just grab her and take her elsewhere to dance or I introduce myself with the guy and put my arm round her and take her elsewhere to dance...

after a while I get bored of dancing with her cause although she's flirting she has a bf and I can see she's a little uncomfortable about taking the next step as I'm in her face all the time with eye contact and flirting...

I fuck her off and go to another club and end up finding my mate and socialising for a bit...I end up briefly approach a group of 5 and introducing myself to them all with 4 girls and 1 guy...I say hello and leave it at that...

We socialise well and introduce myself to some guys my male friend is with and goto another club...

I see the girl I fucked off and continue to ignore her...she keeps pushing me and grabbing my hand but I keep ignoring her and she keeps reacting...I try dancing with the other and again she does like it but seems reluctant to take it further...it's weird...

the night goes on and I'm been quite cocky btw...I'm been very cheeky and telling the girls how hot they are and shit....I kept the eye contact with the girls all night...maybe too much? I'd stare at them on purpose and they'd feel a little uncomfortable but smile...

the one without a bf is with some guy...I'm grabbing her arse as she talks to them and she keeps turning around smiling and saying my name...I talk to my mate and the guy she's with repeatedly says 'this guys a trier' but he isn't that pissed off....

I take the girl with a bf downstairs to the toilets and start talking to her...I'm relaxed and I tell her if she didn't hae a bf I'd get with her....

her reaction is a little strange...she seems a little surprised and keeps asking me if I fancy her...I keep telling her I find her and her mate attractive and get with them both...she says she's confused cause we're usually like best mates etc...I say something like how can a guy be best mates with a girl and not be attracted to them unless they're gay....she then bangs on about how her bf had dirty texted some girl after I'd mentioned this whole guys can't be friends with girls...

this is a massive blow as I can tell she's pissed about this girl and her bf....why would i give a fuck about that? I just like the girl and that's that...I think to myself that my chances with this girl are pretty low after that reaction but I maintain my frame...

She still holds hands but still when dancing seems uncomfortable naturally to take it further because of the bf situation which is fine...her mate is with some other guy and I can't get with her despite flirting with her all night and getting good reaction...she even says 'your my brothers best mate' or something like that...maybe it's playing on her mind.

I fuck the one with the bf off again and go outside and leave with some guy who also likes her but is a massive chode..no joke....we go outside and the 1 without the bf says to the 1 with the bf...oh u fancy him (the chode) and she laughs and says 'so what'...

another blow but I don't react...

we goto the takeaway etc...I say I'm off and she's like text me...but she doesn't come and stays to talk with this chode...

eventually me her and the girl with no bf get taxi home after this guy is been a dick....I pay and leave without hugging them and shit but im cool about...I say nice meeting the shy guy and walk home...

She messages me 'Get home okay?' and I ignore

she messages me again 'fine dont reply :S'

i message her back 'goto bedx'

she message me 'as if u said to (the non bf) you dont like going out with u anymore cause u think were boring... thanks'

I didn't actually say that...I believe I said I wouldn't go out with them cause they're a bit annoying or something...

I text back saying I never said you were boring lol

She texts back saying then why don't you want to go out with us again?

I text back saying I'm not spending all night with 2 girls...1 who has a bf and the other who I'm best mates with sister if I'm not getting with them....I then say we're cool but I'm not wasting my time and leave it at that..

The night was strange...on one hand I'm pretty disappointed I didn't get with one of them and I didn't even get laid...on the other hand I can honestly say in my whole life I've never gone out and approached so much and got rejected and kept going and been social etc... I even opened myself up to the girl which I've never done...I did it not giving a fuck...I said to her..I dont give a fuck...here it is...all on the line...

My thoughts right now are to ignore them both and just move on...it will be tough but I think it's the best way...who knows...it might work in my advantage later down the line...


Advice would be very much appreciated

Cheers Joe