Right, I'm still a little drunk as I type this, so excuse any mistakes I make during this post. Tonight I met up with a couple of friends and we decided to head to a local bar, spend the time chatting and get some drinks in. My friend (Tina) brought a lovely HB7.5 along with her, I made light conversation, with some light Kino to start with, I wasn't really trying to game her, I was out to have fun with friends.

Anyway, there were 5 of us, there, I was playing pool with one of the other guys and he told me that he was planning on making a move on her, I told him to go for it because I wasn't really in the mood to game her anyway. I won the game of pool and moved on to play the next round with my other friend, I looked up and saw that he was already making out with HB7.5. Hes by no means a PUA and he said quite a few times through the night that he sucks with girls. I was pretty drunk by this point so I don't really know how drunk she was, but she couldn't have been anything more than tipsy.

After a while, we all decided to walk to a near by park, I'd been secretly Kinoing the HB7.5 the whole time, lightly touching her shoulder when we spoke, touching her lower back when I walked past her, held her hand within the first 2 minutes of meeting her. Whilst we walked from the park, she seemed to be keeping her distance from my friend, they made out on the swings whilst I was sitting and chatting with my friends, which seemed odd considering minutes before she was distancing herself from him.

We then walked to the train station and I was continuing the light Kino, cocky funny lines such as "Aww you two make an adorable couple" really just exaggerating their relationship, not trying to AMOG my friend or anything, but I was very drunk and just trying to amuse myself.

I took her to the toilet because she didn't want to go on her own, and before she went in I pulled her close, made deep eye contact and brushed my lips against hers, I remember then asking if she could feel the tension between us, she said no, though I seem to remember asking several more times and then backing off, without kissing her and walking into the toilet. When I came out, I waited for her and this time, when she came out I pulled her close, made out with her and hugged her, as we were hugging my friend walked around the corner, I called him over and told him to join in on the hug.

So, tonight I used no openers, no routines, all I did was cocky funny/amusing myself, Kino, built sexual tension through eye contact and kissed closed.

Things I learnt

1) Building sexual contact is incredibly important
2) Using pre-learnt routines and lines in un-necessary
3) Enjoying yourself, being confident and being ALPHA is all it really takes

I've been texting HB7.5 this morning and what she has been saying has been very helpful to me actually.

She texted me saying that she does have a boyfriend, and that nothing else can happen between us, I told her I understood and that we were just enjoying outselves anyway, in which she agreed. She also told me that she regretted kissing my friend, but didn't regret kissing me. Apparently my friend had started asking her how much she liked him shortly after they made out, which clearly comes across as very needy.

So I can add something else to my list of things I learnt last night

4) Being Non-Needy gets you much further than the guys who are needy
5) Building comfort and sexual attraction is more important than anything else.

nice post.

i have to agree with you on the contact. as soon as i get a solid ioi i start it of with small amounts of contact after that. i think early game contact helps in the long run, when it comes to comfort facter.

also.. im moving up to the UK to live in june. maybe we can sarge sometime? was there in december and i found the british girls much easier to talk to then here in south africa.