I got to run my first feild test 1 week ago. My friend invited me to her birthday party at a local bar. I peacocked a bit (necklace and a brighter shirt). As soon as I arrived at the bar I shook hands, touched arms and shoulders, and even hugged one of the people in the birthday group (hug was a little akward for her at first). Now to be fair I knew 60% of the people in this group, but I think it made a good impression on the rest of the bar. Mostly I focused on positive body language and kino escalation. One of the girls in our group was easaly an 8 so I made it a point to talk with her the most (I'm bad at picking a target). I led into a DHV story about how I went white water rafting on a whim and met an 80 year old guy who was actually living his bucket list. After a while I ran into a 5 I'd met a few nights prior (we used to work together). Her friend (a 2) started talking to me and eventualy mentioned that she had a crush on me in highschool (I don't remember this girl).

Side note for future, HOTTER girl:

Girl: I used to have a crush on you in school (giggle)
Cocktail: (deep voice) Sounds like you still do
(opinion?)

Our party went out on the dance floor (I'm not really good, but I don't look like a fool either). I had my hands on the 8's waist for a bit and then we went back to dancing with the rest of the group. The 2 pulled me aside later when I went to get a water (I didn't have any alchohol that night) and told me I owed her a dance. I didn't want to loose face for the 5 (she's an old friend and I don't know how socialy connected she is) so I accepted. Long story short she grinded on me and I lost some of my nerve. Turns out that I lose focus the second that the blood goes south. I got attracted to a 2! What a chump! Any way, I went back to the group and started kino escalation with the 8. Unfortunatly she'd been drinking and I noticed that she kinda had that dead look in her eyes. I was up the the point I was using commands and even smelled her hair, but I couldn't in good conceous take advantage of her drunk state (I know the focus should be MY wants and needs). One of the guys in our group walked me over to a complete stranger (5). I tried to play it off smooth (jokeing about the guy that had dragged me over). She made it clear that she didn't know the friend that brought me over and didn't want to get to meet me either. I politely left. The 2 floated arround to other AMOGs and I studied each of the AMOGs beavours. They appeared completly uninterested (as they should have actually been uninterested. Chick was 280lb), but she just pressed harder the more they shrugged her off.

So please give me feedback on this. I really want to step up my game.

sounds like you still do was perfect.

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

"I was up the the point I was using commands"

What do you mean by commands?


How often did you neg the 8? You didn't day anything about negging. Negs are one of the most vital components of the routine.



FlusherD12

I was telling her to do things rather than hinting. I guess I was doing more compliance tests than commands.

I didn't neg the 8 because I already had her next to me in the booth and was smelling her hair. I figured that if I'd already gotten this far I didn't need the neg (?).