So I have decided to post my journal, of successes and failures I hope you find it insightful and amusing.

February 3rd 2011.

Well I sat on a bus heading to work (I do drive however parking downtown is expensive.) So here I am on the bus, thinking how shitty the city looks with the snow dirt and grime.

Then I see this girl get on a solid HB8. Black hair slim, nice eyes, bit of a punk rock look.

She sits next to me and starts doing her make up. I don't care see women do it all the time. she does not look at me she did notice I checked her out prior to her sitting next to me.

My stop comes and to my surprise she is getting off as well, she stands up and her pants catch and I see her bare ass, OMFG now she has my attention. We get to a set of lights waiting to cross and she looks at me and I have headphones on she grabs my forearm and gives a light squeeze and smiles at me and starts talking I pull my head phones out and she says "I am so sorry about putting on my makeup next to you it was so embarrassing" in my head I am going

"what who cares, why are you touching me, what do you want, why are smiling so much why are you stepping closer why are you.....OHHHH SHES FLIRTING!!!!"

I ended up exchanging numbers with her, we will call her Kim.

anyone who knows me on this forum (CHIEF)

will know I was convinced attractive women would never go for me. so this put a seed in my head, if this complete stranger found me interesting. then perhaps I should make a move on someone I know.

It payed off.

this is gold

February 7th 2011


I met this girl through a friend we hung out once I had fun with her she had fun with me. I tried to creep her out and she in turn tried to creep me out more. added her on Facebook and never really talked to her kept my distance. I thought tonight is my shot as she asked if she should change her hair color.

Me: I'm good busy with work Seen Steph tonight she was kinda blue I cheered her up. It's a shame I don't get to see you often your cute and fun.

Her: hehe thank yew =3 I thought I scared you tho

Me: I am scared of you.... Your tiny and evil and attempted to burn me. I tried scaring you it didn't work and backfired... I have nightmares.

Her: LOL yeah I dont scare that easy hahaha dont be scared of me tho only when Im mad. Im just a fun sized little one =3

Me: Well I am sorry, I need to see therapy now... and my doctor has some recommendations

Her: are you actually having nightmare about me??!! =(

Me: Yes, doctor says in order to get over it I need to take you to a dark / public place. He recommends a movie.

Her: aww =3 thats kinda cute

Me: question is did it work

Her: LoL did you just ask me out to a movie?

Me: well I would prefer to do it in public but seeing as how I met you once.... yes I just asked you out to a movie.

I think the little story about nightmares was a nice touch.

what are you doing Saturday ?

Her: LoL you lied?!! rol!! and sadly I work saturday I am free friday.

So I have plans with her, we are gonna head out and have a good time friday night. [/u]

It's good that you started a journal, but online interactions don't belong on the Field Reports board. Notice the word "Field."

Maybe, but for the sake of the journal, it's best to keep all entries together for completion.

So the OP can then reflect on the complete journey if he wishes to continue.

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Feb 11th 2011

Me and the girl from the text interaction above went on our date,

Dinner and then back to my place for movies, she was fun we had a good time but, she seemed distant and not comfortable. she looked good we watched some pretty gay ass movies, she was openly flirting with me at the conclusion of the second movie she asked what I wanted to do and I said we should go up stairs to my room, she said she didnt feel like getting laid.

I dropped her off and went home showered changed and went to the local bar.

Feb 13th 2011

So something did not sit right with me and that girl, I kept feeling something was up. she said she didnt want a relationship. so I started talking to her and then she said the reason I don't want a relationship is I am pretty sure I am pregnant.
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So far this month I have had a Psycho with a BF in jail, a fake number, and a girl who decided she wanted to go to dinner with me and then 2 days later tell me she was pregnant and had feelings for the father.

atleast I am actively dating.

DING DING next round.