So on Wednesday my fraternity had a paired pregame with a sorority. There was about 8 guys and 7 girls there. I told myself before the night that I would be trying to have as much fun as possible and not focus on PU at all. I wanted to be the life of the party, problem is I don't know how to do this very well. Heres my night:

Around 10pm girls started showing up, guys had already been taking shots before they got there to loosen up. When they got there i introduced myself to two of them and the other 2 I couldnt really. The girls i ended up introducing myself to were kind of bitchy (consensus among the guys) and were just talking to each other pretty much the whole time. I asked them some questions and they would just answer and go straight back to talking to each other. I said fuck that and moved to another circle of people forming.

This group i never really could get involved in since they were already in conversation and one of my brothers seemed like he was getting to know them pretty well. I tried to get more involved but found it hard to transition the conversation to something that I could partake in. I ended up just listening and mainly inserting funny comments here and there.

Around 1030-45 another group of 3 girls came and i introduced myself to two of them. One (HB4 kinda chubby) i started to play beer pong with and we developed a connection through that. I didn't really feel like it was a strong connection though, maybe its because i really wasnt that interested in her. We won two games and then we stopped to take a shot with some people.

The two hottest girls there i never had much of a chance to interact with. Its difficult to be the life of the party if half the girls dont know you at all.

Problems: transitioning conversation to fit your frame, how to be the life of the party, how to develop better connections while talking to people

Let me know how my first FR is boys, I'll be writing many this upcoming semester so I wanna get better at it