One day I've been at a client - sometimes I call them clients and not customers if they want some psychological advice, and if you suppose that I'm really very good at psychology you're absolutely right. (;

When I set up an operating system for him and showed him how to handle some things he don't knew he told me during the set-up process that he is a little bit irritated about himself, and I asked him why.
He kept talking and sayed that every time he has an girl friend other women are interested in him more than when he doesn't have a girl friend.
I smiled and sayed to him that he is more himself if he has a girl friend an women like that and therefore they become more interested in him when he has a girl friend because he is more himself than during the "hunt".
So he asked me if this is really all about it, the "trick", I nodded, laughed and sayed, "yes, that's the trick, one of them, be yourself and don't try to go along with every opinion of the girl you want, a nice guy will never catch the bird, be as you are and never show weakness in your 'style to be', that's all about it. Women like a leader and not a companion, and during a relationship they want a comforting leader and not a companion."

He spent thoughts about it but the newly set-up operating system wants attention. [...]

(This is just an outtake of one of my personal lifetime stories, and I don't know if it really fits here in.)