STORY:
(We met at a salsa club. Attraction started strong but seemed to get a little weaker, we dance and talk for about an hour)
Me: "I've got to take off. We should hang out sometime. Give me your number"
Her: "Well, are you going to be here next week? ... I mean, I'm really busy (she's in med school). I study 10-12 hours a day.... well... alright..."
(then I stayed and we talked for about an hour establishing solid rapport)
Her: "Wow. This conversation got really deep"
(10 more minutes of conversation and I leave with a hug)
(sent after I left the club so that she has my number)
me via text: "Good night, HB6. -Dean"
(next day, 7pm)
her via text: "Hey Dean =)"
... And last night I was grinding her a little and touching her waist and back without any resistance. Getting lots of other IOIs too. Thank god I kept going! I'm finally getting farther with hot girls.


QUESTIONS:

1) Before day 2, I was talking to her on the phone:
Me: "What are you up to right now?"
Her: "Going to eat at cheesecake factory with some people from the salsa club. Have you ever eaten there?"
It seems like she's seeding the dinner to me, but I don't want to invite myself. Anyone know what to do with this?

2) I haven't had good sexual tension in the right moments. It's hard for me to escalate to a kiss or more when I don't feel it. Anyone know how to build sexual tension? I can always feel it but never noticed what causes it.