Disclaimer: I even wrote this in a Word document first and copy/pasted, just so I can re-read it and edit it, but it’s still a little choppy and bouncy. Sorry.
Ahh strip clubs, they can be fun. I actually am quite popular at one for 1 reason, Sunday Poker. I've been playing there for like 5-6 years, so let's just say I got the "social proof" part down already. But I chose to try it out here for practice and shoot for the moon.. I sure did shoot kinda far.
I HAD to try 60’s methods on someone. My first try and mistake, I went up to 2 girls I already knew just as acquaintances in the club. I was standing basically facing them and they were sitting in high chairs facing me, therefore not a lot of personal kino could go on, and there were 2 of em. Didn't have a chance to isolate.
My second try was golden. I went up to a HB7.5-8. Pretty girl, great personality, but at that club they typically hire a little bit better looking girls. Either way, according to my standards, I was happy with her appearance and looks.
I went up to the bar, ordered a drink after I saw her sit down and kinda looked her up and down, then said Hello. 60’s stuff teaches you to relax and not worry about rejection, all while keeping it cool and sexual. That’s basically what happened for the first 5 minutes, and within that time frame I was open to getting the number, but waited. I wanted to play around with her more.
So I opened with Hello. And basically it was on from there. Totally sexual and totally QUIET! Gazing, looking at lips, making her talk and me listening. It was like magic. It’s hard to be specific on the things I said but I remember being witty and just very still with a triangular gaze going on. Kino escalation was in play also! It’s fun! I did talk, don’t get me wrong, but it was only either asking an open ended question so she would ramble, or teasing her a little when she’d give me a shit test.
She’d say something like “A screwdriver? You’re drinking a screwdriver?” with an, OMG I cant believe youre drinking that-kind-of-face…. Of course, when they test you, they’re trying to see if you’re a pussy or you’re going to be unattractive or whatever. I gave her shit right back. You have to do this, especially with hired guns/mercenaries like dancers and waitresses. “Uh yes I am, what the hell are you drinking?” but with a smile and playful attitude.
I’d also say something like “Oh man, you’re losing me, you’re down to about a C minus.” LOL. So then we flirted back and forth about a scale of A to D, blah blah. It was fun, the entire conversation was fun, but I NEVER let go of that “shut up and listen” attitude. And it’s funny cause when I kept gazing and let it go a little longer than I would used to do it, you could tell the sexual tension rose.
I had a scarf on, she wanted to play with that. She took my coat off for me after I said I was hot, she just unzipped it right there and yanked it off and gladly put it over her chair. She also turned her body about 7-8 minutes into it, crossed her legs (high chair), and put her right foot/leg in between my legs. I gave this “wtf are u doing” face and she’s like “Oh im sorry, maybe you need to move”, and I’m like “Hell no, I was here first.” And when I said all of these things, I slightly laughed or was at least smiling the whole time. Ya don’t wanna be mean to them , lol. She complied though. She was giving IOI’s like crazy by playing with her hair, this and that.
Anyways, within the first 5 minutes, I told her she had a nice phone and gave her shit about texting while I was talking to her. “Oh you must be busy.” And she said “Would you like to be texting me?” (That was the IN for getting her number but I didn’t yet) I said “No, I call girls” And she asked “Would you like to call me?” I replied “Nope, not yet.” LOL. Drove her a little crazy. I knew I’d see her later.
I asked her to come play poker with me at a 2nd chance table and she gladly did. It’s like she was really happy to be in my company. After a few drinks though, she would nicely bite my arm after I teased her. You could tell she was comfortable with me, but I could tell she was not drunk. She went around and tried to hustle a few guys, made some money. She came back after I promised her a massage (I’m a massage therapist) so we sat down at a table (she wanted a dark table for some reason
). So I started to massage, she complained about her night. And I would tease her by stopping the massage and kinda kissing the back of her shoulder, she loved it. That’s when I got her number and she even said “Yeah, uh, I tried to give it to you awhile ago but you were too busy being a jerk.” Hahaha. (It’s a good sign when they think you’re a jerk). We did kiss on the lips several times, but that may have actually been more of her game than being interested, I don’t know. I have a lot to learn.
Basically I did what 60’s said.
1) Smile, but a smooth smile.
2) Stay quiet, don’t say much.
3) Gaze with your smile
4) Keep eye contact and look at her lips
5) Stay still and stay chill
I had a ton of fun with her and will certainly go to a bar to try it out this weekend on real women who aren’t hired mercenaries, as I like to call ‘em! We’ll see what happens. But hey at least I got this chicks number who seemed way interested and I’ll give her a call in about… 5 days! Haha! Make the bitch wait!
Also I’d like to point out how much LESS I talked than her. And the point is, when I DID speak, it was more powerful. Keep that in mind.
CHAT