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It sounds to me as if the numbers you got were either fake, or are going to flake, really hard. Doesn't sound as if you had any rapport with these people whatsoever.
What this guy said.
Calling girls fat bitches is not that classy either.
Yeah.
If you want to do blowouts before you do real approaches, make them funny to you, but not INSULTING. Not giving a shit is a great attitude to have, but don't be a dick to people for no reason.
Opening direct is what I do, I know it works and I commend you for it. However, if you walk away and can't say AT LEAST 5 things about the girl that are somewhat interesting, then the likelihood is, she'll flake on you. After the opener, you have to show you actually want to get to know HER as a person, otherwise she'll assume you're just after a quick fuck. Some girls will be up for that, but you'll lose a significant percentage that would have gone on a date with you if you'd just bothered to find out what they're into, a bit about what's going on with them and who they are, and THEN set up a day 2 based on a commonality and number closed.
Your best bet is to CALL those numbers the day after and start with a random story to get them laughing, and then build some rapport over the phone before setting up the day 2. That way they'll know you're not weird and will be more likely to meet.