So I'm really good at day game, I have no problems approaching, creating interest and closing during the day... In fact I find it a lot of fun. However never being one to go out to clubs/bars (dont drink) my night game is severely lacking in comparison (however since i moved to Madrid, thats been changing).

Now for the past 3 months, i have been going out with a large group of friends to bars and clubs. Now most of the time, i never bothered to do night pick up, and this is for two reasons, 1. there were already girls in the group, girls that were attractive and interested in me. 2. I mostly wanted to feel comfortable with the idea, going out, going to bars, etc.. I wanted to feel comfortable in the enviroment. However this basically creates a problem where, the girls are going to dance so we just stand around looking like retards, or dance, still looking like retards, we're their social proof.

So last night I said fuck it, it was the first night i went with the single purpose of picking up and putting what ive read about night game into practice. I learned a lot of things actually it was great but its a very dif. EVR from day game. However conversation is a pain in the ass in loud clubs. I did a handful of approaches and always left a high note, and this was mostly because i was tired to yelling as loud as i could just to talk. But it was good, i got a few number closes and what not. Still I left the club a lot sooner than i would have liked because by the end of the night i had lost my voice... What do you guys do about this? How in the hell do you pick up in loud clubs? I know the whole, find the quiet area of the club stuff, but wtf, what if the WHOLE club is too damn loud?

Also, how do you deal with party girls? You know the ones that i mean, the ones that do there just to get laid, and find conversation boring? The ones that just wanna go to get laid that night.

Lastly, i now understand why a simple "Hi" or "Hello" (well here in Spain it would be "Hola"), is SUCH a powerful opener. The other openers mostly GIVE you an excuse to talk to her, or the group ( and I dont even mean the canned stuff (dont use canned stuff)). It puts you beneath them right from the start. You are trying to win them over. When you walk over with a "Hello" strong body language, and a powerful smile, you come off as more confident. You DONT need an excuse to talk to them. You are just doing it because you wanna have fun. So who cares what happens, you are just having fun. Love it.

Lastly, a good wingman is priceless. The guys i was out with last night are so damn shy... I EVEN brought them over to wing me. Saying "oh this is my friend so-and-so... bet damn... they are too shy, eventually the turn around and walk away. It ok though, it seems my antics have inspired them to be more confident.

Anyways, i will post more on night game is progress, my goal for night game is to get to the point where i can, k-close and pull for an f-close on the same night, with any girl i choose.

Still prefer day game though. Its more my style and there is much less pressure.

Anyways, cheers

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