Basically the rundown is I was introduced to a girl through my social circle, so that obviously launched me straight into attraction. Made some small talk with her there then a bit on facebook and organised a hang out. I've just got some questions about what happened haha.

Well my plan was i'd just run attraction material, then qualification, comfort etc... Started out meeting at the local shopping centre (told her we'd just play it by ear) walked down to the park, on the walk i ran some basic dhv stories and stuff, told her stories about my travelling and what i do for fun (going out boating etc), wasn't really much physical escalation.. it didn't seem like the right thing to do.

Once we sat down we started talking a bit more about each other, i found that she is very similar to me in her outlook on life and her values and attitudes, this is what i qualified her on mostly. I also observed about 10 IOI's by this point haha. I figured the only thing left to do was go for the kiss, so I moved a bit closer to her till our legs were touching, played with her hair a little. I didn't really feel like i needed much more escalation than that.. I busted out the old 'Would you like to kiss me'.. This is where I got confused... she sort of stuttered and ummed a little, (i probably should have just kissed her here lol) then she said hesitantly 'i think um maybe we should just be friends'.. so i said what happens if i kiss you anyway, then i went in for the kiss.. she turned away, but then she looked at me and i smiled and then we kissed.. a nice brief kiss.. no tongue.. i pulled away first..

Then i said some stupid shit like 'haha you kissed me!'.. dunno why.. lol.. but i quickly changed the topic back to what we were talking about.. then i ran about 30 mins of comfort stuff getting to know stuff about each other etc etc.. then i said.. im bored.. lets make out.. she lol'd and we kissed more intensely... bit of tongue and stuff.. then i just sort of said 'hey, but seriously, lets just keep things casual ' and she agreed.

Made some more small talk, bit more comfort stuff then we hugged goodbye.

What I really want to know is why she tried to friend zone me.. but then didn't lol. Cheers guys.