Okay so this is basically something that i have secretly stumbled upon by going to a friends party on new years eve. Its a tip that anyone can use and for me so far has generated results.

Simplified Story -
I met the girl and her friends outside a shop with a few mates so we can show them where the party was. I displayed good body language and a smile when meeting them. Later on i offered to carry my targets bag but said i was doing it 'Not because i liked her, because i needed her bag to carry my own'. She agreed.
Later on the party was quite dull and people were sitting around watching TV so i was there cracking a few jokes and commenting on the program acting cocky and funny. Music was soon on and i found myself in a position to sit next to my target.

This is where it all changed - I sat next to her on this small couch and didn't say much just acted cool and in control. We made small talk and commented on things and i let it be silent from time to time as i felt no pressure and it was in a talkative SPAM. Then i grabbed her hand and pretended to be able to read her palm, (This was the best move i did all night) She then without me even doing anything started caressing my hand and so i replicated. This was the official its on moment so i put my arm around her and didn't even speak, just kept caressing. Later on i put my hand around her neck and stroked her hair and got the kiss. I didn't get the lay because it was at my friends house. Lol i asked for a bed but he said no way! I still got her number and she wants to come up and see me sometime.

Guys you have to get an its on moment and risk using kino. Believe me you don't need to say a thing when you get a girl all it takes it getting close, touching and when you get to the mutual caressing part... oh boy is it on!

I even observed it when my flat mate got a lay. He moved onto the couch next to his target, spoke for only about 10 seconds then gave her a high 5 straight away! As 60 years challenge puts it. Its not the escalation or kino that matters its the attractive quality of doing it and doing it fast!

Not sure if your friend's hi-five in 10 seconds is necessarily super high-velocity kino ploughing, but your k-close is a perfectly good example of just escalating with confidence and not really worrying or having any doubts. You're right - if the girl is attracted, you can just escalate and you don't need to say an awful lot at all. Good work.

Couple of points

Kino will not build or increase attraction on its own. It will only increase her comfort with you. If you do friendly light kino on a girl, you may make her more comfortable around you, but if she's not attracted she won't sleep with you, however OK she is with you touching her arm. The only thing you can prove with kino is that, if you do SEXUAL kino and she is ok with it, she MUST be attracted to you. (The inverse is NOT true however - she may resist sexual kino as part of "token" resistance, but still actually be attracted - "not yet" rather than "no"). Kino is BEST used as a tool to reward her for behaviours you like. For example, if she gives you an IOI or exhibits compliance, rewarding her with touch is a great way to keep her doing it (positive reinforcement). If she resists friendly light kino, you are miscalibrating, she REALLY doesn't like you, or she is weird.

About the k-close - if you are interested in seeing a girl again and cannot logistically close that night, you're actually shooting yourself in the foot by k-closing in front of people (I acknowledge that NYE is a slightly different occasion). This is because you're risking activating her ASD and she doesn't want to look like a slut in front of her friends. These days, I ALWAYS wait until I am back at my place before I kiss her. This gives me more time to build sexual tension, and I know that once we kiss, I can just keep escalating and close right there.

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