| I'm super newb, so please feel free to make any possible observation.
So i went out to the mall, i see this girl, ok looking from a distance. I try to stick to the 3 seconds rule but i keep thinking way too much, so she goes aways. I wander around just checking my cell, i see her again, i try not to blew it this time. I sit next to her and open with "i have a female friend, i want to buy her clothes as a present" and she gives me suggestions of stores. I ask her where she bought her clotches, tell her she looks good on them. She smiles, and i found some truly disturbing dental work going on which cuts the mood strongly for me. I still ask her what is she doing, she tells me she might be going to watch a movie with someone. I end up the converstation right there, i thank her for the info and walk away. Not bad for a start, better than still be wandering around aimless. I do notice that when i sat next to her i kept my hands in my pocket for some reason, a bad habit i guess, working on fixing that.
Now, i have my eye on a cute girl working in a fast food joint, before going i see her talking a lot with some dude. He leaves and i approach with the following:
-I'm going to ask you 4 questions, and you will answer yes to all of them
She stares at me a little surprised, smiles a bit
-Are you bored of being here
-Yes i am!
-Would you like to be somewhere else?
-For sure, at home probably
-Are you tired of guys coming here to make small talk with you, like i'm doing?
-What? *giggles a bit* Well, not really, i mean...
-Like the guy who was here before, you know
-Oh, he's a friend
(oh shi-, ok, let's see)
-Well, seems to me you get plenty of guys here to talk to you, you're the best looking girl i have seen working here by far
*she sort of disconnects from the talk a bit, doesn't have any particular reaction
-Well, you and another girl i saw in another restaurant near here
*no reaction, i'm having some trouble to come up with a good follow*
-So, about the four question
-Yes?
-What about us going out?
-Oh, i have a boyfriend
-It's ok, we can take him along, i don't mind
-What? hahaha* a wide open laugh and smile come to her face
At that moment some friend of her arrives and starts talking to her, i sort of stand there, looking somewhere else. My nerves sort of betray me for a brief moment and i do some weird shake movement with my hand, but it's quick and doesn't go too far. They finally finish talking.*
-Oh well, thanks for being honest.
-Why i wouldn't be? No reason to lie you about having a boyfriend
-Anyway, my name is blabla, and yours?* i extend my hand*
-My name is blabla *handshake returned, she is smiling*
-Well, see ya!
Not bad for a first day, better than nothing for sure. That nervous shake i got thankfully doesn't come too often. Happens to me sometimes on certain situations where i feel some social stress, my body sort of betrays me at moments, but again, i recovered quickly even that she noticed. I felt it was good to say goodbye to the last chick in the way i did, instead of just walking away without closing the entire conversation. Looking foward for the feedback.
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