I'm Polish and for last one or two months I'm trying to
analyze what's pick up is all about. Until yesterday all the material
I been reading was in Polish but how surprised I was how much material I
could find on YouTube by simple searching for "PUA". But
let's move on...
So I can go to club and when I find myself in surrounding of few girls I
can start chatting up randomly (nothing fancy) though I'm more of a
dancing type (signed up for modern dancing classes month ago too!) so
that's sorta my good side since I can do kino test while dancing and
see how far she's willing to let me do it. All's been going well.
I asked (actually it was "Let's dance!" with my hand reaching for her) a girl to dance, she said "I didn't drunk enough to
dance." to which I replied "It's fine, I'll teach you
" and grabbed her hands gently and walked with her on the dancefloor
. I think all's been going well (though during the dance she
whispered to me that she's thirsty, we finished the song and got back
on couch). Then she left with her girl-friend outside for a minute and I
decided not to wait for her (I guess that would be DLV) so I went on the
dancefloor and been dancing and having fun with other girls. When she got
back I guess she saw and I think that's good
. When she sat on the
other couch across the table I simply pat a seat next to me and she just
moved right next to me with no fight at all. Then dancing got bit more
sensual but she was all for it. I was moving my hands around her breast
lines and it was all good. She didn't put much resistance :].
While we were sitting across the table we both were keeping EC pretty often and she smiled back at me too.
Then after some time I said something like "*handing her my phone* I
gotta go soon. Put Your number in it
" to which she replied
"But I got a boyfriend." and I said "And that's a
problem to You?" She goes "Yes." I said "Nonetheless,
Write it down, I'll write you something interesting
." she
writes it down, then I "accidentally" erased it... she puts it
back in. 3x in a row and I guess she put in the exact same number so
it's probably real.
I texted her about 2 days after. I just wrote something like:
"Once upon a time there was this game who met a girl while he was on his dancing rampage. She insisted that she can't dance but after a while he figured out that she just wasn't very sure of herself. How do you feel after that dancing night?"
Didn't get any reply yet but I read some articles online about basics of text game (ie. don't send 2 text in 48hrs, if she doesn't reply wait ~5 days and try again if you want, no smilies or x's, one question mark per text) so I'm kinda cool now but I was wondering what are Your thoughts about this guys? The text was send to her about 5-6 days ago and I got no reply. Not planning to send another one yet (c'mon on! It's Xmas the day after tomorrow)
It was sort of spontaneous thing 'cause I actually went to that night club with my 2 mates just to celebrate my extended job contract so all these beers in the end did make me blabber a bit
.
Though my friend lend me for the night a very cool hat I used for as a "peacock" thing and it worked pretty cool. While I was dancing girls sometimes would "steal" it from me
. My mates would do sometimes the same seeing how much effect it had on me. I think I got pretty decent social proof in the club too (I danced a lot, and with couple girls too and my mates would just pass next to us and throw some positive comment). Other girl at the bar (which happened to be my mate's friend) would say "You got a fucking awesome hat!" and she'd wear it for a while. She remembered my name instantly (my mate introduced us).
Overall, I think not half bad for a newbie, right? I been reading lots of arts and watching videos online about PUAs (currently over half way through of "Game") so I'm gathering as much theory as I can.
To sum up. What I did right? What I did wrong?
Any advice will be appreciated
P.S.
Like I said, my good side is dancing so so far I don't have any experience with storytelling and all these routines.
Tips where to start/what else to read/watch are welcome too.
Regards,
Mav-
CHAT
