Hey Guys,
Classes are finishing up and I've been trying to game this girl HB8 in one of my classes we are in the same group for a project. I did my best to lead the project and to show my best qualities. This is my first official attempt to game a girl since i read the game and started studying this summer. We had a large group project that we were doing and i was the informal leader of the group, I'm pretty book smart but horrible socially, I did my best to flirt giving her a nickname and teasing her about wanting to make everything on our business report pretty.
Last week our group project was completed and I was talking to her before class as she was waiting outside class early. I found that I ran out of conversation material pretty fast and she wasn't making much effort to talk. I already had read her body language and knew she liked an other guy in my group who is my friend. I had already decided that if nothing else happened today I would ask HB8 out for coffee after class, to get to know her personally.
I honestly didn't care what the answer was, but more importantly the fact that I stepped outside my comfort zone and just asked a girl out (which would be a first for me at 19years old). So after class, I strategically walked out of class so we were beside each other started small talk and then ask she was leaving the other wait asked her. I could already tell she wanted to get away, so i blurted it out. She said maybe and left not another word.
In hindsight I really should have asked her to coffee when she was waiting early before class because she was talking about how she was early and had nothing to do so she went for coffee. I was waiting for the perfect moment where she was interested in something i had to say which has happened in the past.
Failing was the best thing that could have happened to me because it wasn't that bad. I learned alot from it and it will only be easier next time, I mean i couldn't have done any worse. Later I was getting everyone together to study for our finals and chatting with them on fb chat, i said Hey to her and a minute later she logs off. What do i think about this? I'm not taking it personally but i fear i have broken the golden rule of pick up I didn't leave her better than i found her. She is one of two things scared of me or scared of hurting me.
What do i do now? Do i do anything or just act like it was nothing? Input and suggestions on finding conversation topics that i should talk about to connect with girls.
What I learned?
I need to be more social and avoid being boring at all costs this really kills it.
I need to hook the girl and get her interested.
I have to stop qualifying myself with stuff i say, it shows my needyness
I need to relax, its supposed to be fun right.
Fear is my biggest enemy i only have 1 year left before i transfer, I don't want to regret my time here at this college, so its time for a serious gaming and alot more field reports to come.
The only way i will grow is to push that comfort zone and fail, I won't be afraid to live my life, my way.
~Exact
CHAT
