| ok so, im in germany for a holliday as i am visiting my father, i come from england.
so i went to this bar last night which i went to last year aswell. pick up is a bit harder cos i obviously cant speak the language. this isnt a normal night club or anything its an old style authentic pub and a scotish\ irish night was on. its full of much older ppl. 30 plus in some cases. there was one hot waitress which remembered me from alst year although i could of tried, my german is shit and its extremely busy so it would of been un fair to keep her from her job, i also wanted my food to come:P
anyway through this night i could be who ever i wanted to be so i entered confident, and my family was there so it was really social. spoke to alot of people never put my self to look bored all the way through the night. i had an awesome time. now heres the awesome bit. my grandad was trying to get with this 7. she was 45 blonde hair. normal weight, alright looks. so i sit next to em and im making conversation with the whole table. i look at this woman next to me and we start talking. i look into her eyes and im talking slowley within a minute of talking i slow my talking down while doing the triangle motion (look at each eye then the mouth then back to the eye). i then smiled and she laughed it off. this seriously works my first time doing it. we then speak a bit more and i do it again and by now she totally knows whats going down.
through this part i go away to smoke somewhere else, i return to the group again and it seems like im in the comfort zone. i thought to my self that i was falling into the LJBF zone so kinda went back a little. after this expriance i realized that it was just the comfort zone that i was in and with that then i should up the tempo a little like ask to go somewhere. i could see the triggers to pull but i didnt make them when i fealt the need so next time i will and see if that helps me just as well (i know it will).
the group go to bed and we go into the other room, we are talking, im building sexual tension and she was talking about something totally non sexy so i just went in for the kiss and she let me. it was surprisingly easy. i know from this experiance is that all of this that i did i could of totally did in a really short amount of time, i understand the phrase "pull the trigger". the kiss trigger wanst with me but the isolation bit is with me. so i will start with isolation first before i go ahead of myself.
so yer after that i took her into a dark part of the room, totally got it off. started making out, i got a handjob, then tit wank. my only fail was that i was pushing her for the blow job to much and she left without finishing me off. i didnt take my own advice which neil strauss has taught me "when a pig becomes a bore he gets slaughtered". but i was drunk and so drunk = lack of control plus its been awhile for anything sexual so. but yer it was good. ver good learning curve even though she was old enuf to be my mum.
anyway thanks for reading. hope it was a good read and i hope the newbies like me who reads this will get some insight. this is a totally legit newbi experiance. dudes, you gotta practise on older women its so god damn easy, they have less barriers than younger women and theyer totally up for it. so yer you can just practise on them to your own rhythm.
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