Hey, first post here on PUA. Currently I'm an AFC currently reading on Gunwitches theories and have some information from David DeAngelo in the back of my head.

I was going through my phone and came apon an old unanswered text. Her relation is a friends friend in univierity. Its been hard for me to unlearn my wrongs, and I lose focus and start over thinking my texts at a certain point, though coming in very confidant. All extra details will be noted out.


September 2010 – Her
“Hey”

October 11th – Me
“Who is this?”

Her
*****
Who are you?

Me
Avi. **** Who?

Her
Ohh.. Its **** ****, Cindybears friend.

Me
Sounds good then. Howd you cop my number? Cindybear?

Her
Lol noo.. I think you gave it to me at the party during the first week

Me
Me giving you my number? Doesnt sound like me. You sure you werent stalking for my number?

Her
Lol easy there..If I wanted your number so bad I would have texted you already

Me
Got a text in september saying “heyyy”. Better later then never I guess huh?

Her
Lol no you didn't liar.

Me
Why dont you come over and Ill show you

Her
Im not at school, you save your messages for that long? Lol

Me
My phone does it for me, incase situations like this happen aha

Her
Ohh haha..do you live with ******?

Me
No I live in bricker with ****.

Her
Oh right..apperently ******'s makin us dinner some time this week

Me
Sweet. While he cooks us dinner well talk about you stalking my number

Her
Lol you are so full of yourself

Me
Sounds like you want to be full of me too
Here I thought I came on amazingly strong, did repent but shrugged off later

Her
Ha..um no thanks

Me
So Hasty. You stalk me and dont even try to get to know me

Her
You're the one stalking me! I herd you were talking about me last weekend

Me
Now your trying to pin it on me huh? Every stalker ties that trick. And you asking about me asking about you, isnt the same as me asking about you. Get it?
I later thought this was stupid to say

Her
Lol you are wayy to much

Me
I get that a lot aha

Her
Not surprised

Me
Your judging me way to much, you do that a lot?

Her
No lol, you just seem to have a lot of attitude..I'm just making an observation, now you're the one forming an opinion about me.
Here I lost a lot of confidence in what to say, perpetrated slightly, and went on

Me
Aha attitude and confidence come hand in hand. And yeah, Im forming an opinion of you

Her
Lol oh your just confidant haha. Well what do you think so far?

Me
So far huh? I think you give a bad name to stalkers.

Her
Lol well thats not a bad thing

Me
Depends on who your asking

Her
I guess so. Did you have a good weekend?

From here on it was a lot of basic who did what on the weekend

Her
Lol how impressive

Me
Shucks that impressed you? Im blushing

Her
Ya ya im sure you are

Me
Aha why Cant I be? You seem like a deeming girl to impress

Her
Lol a deeming girl to impress?

Me
Yes lol

20 minutes later
Her
Oh now im blushing

10 minutes later
Me
Ya ya, Im sure you are


Looking at this and helping me improve on becoming a successful PUA would be really appreciated.