Tonight it really occured to me. Im starting to really understand in depth what my problem is. Im in this situation where I find once I get the number I create emotional connection, But as soon as Day 2s roll around I freeze up big time and run out of cocky funny and things to say. I have really good text and phone game in my oppinion. I run solid routines to create emotional connection as far as atraction goes. So Im going to go into detail my night last night at the bar.

I called a girl out ive previously had an emotional connection with, it went sour 3 months back. I sent her a text a while back. None the less I called her out to come hang out and have some fun tonight. So she showed up and she was into me. I was getting IOIs but she came with her friend who in the past pulled the mother hen card on me. So we started at this one bar, They gave really shitty service so we all decided to leave and go to another place. I got the IOIs when she told me that she didnt care where she went as long as we were all hanging out, having some drinks and playing pool. (Cool! Im in)

We move to another bar, I created scarcity because I had to drive one of my friends home. So I showed up a tad later than they did and I think that kind of killed the connection. When I arrived I showed up, sat down next to my girl and we had small chit chat. Nothing huge along the lines of rapport building. As I said, Ive previosly had a connection with this girl so Ive bassicly ran all my routines during the first encouter. So in a nut shell, I ran out of good funny cocky things to say to her, But when it comes to text and phone game I could easily have found something to say to the girl. Now at this point Im thinking to myself, wow.. this is where I drasticly need improvement.

After conversation, When the conversation is dying. I say, (I cant use quotations or apostraphies.) Guys I have the coolest, most delicious shot you should try ( Honestly, I just grabbed some random shot on a ap on my iPhone) Bang! Im back in the DHV frame. I got the shots for me and my girl and we eventually go to play pool, My one roommate went to school with the mother hen so I can use him to extract her away from her to run routines. But at this point I run completley out of things to say to this girl.( Kind of like running out of gas on the autobahn in the fast lane.)

Now at this point the girl says to me, I cant stay here for too much longer because my friend has work at 7, So I need to drive her home and im getting out of here in 5 minutes. ( Fuck, lost the connection!) I ask her what her plans are for the rest of the evening ( As soon as I got home I thought it was pretty AFC of me to say) She told me she doesnt have any plans. I said to her that she should come and hang out and check out my new house. She said, Maybe. Shoot me a text when you get home. So I did, as soon as I got home I called her asking her If she wanted to pop in and hang out for the night. I must have gave off the wrong impression with the way I said that. Heres where Im sitting.