I'm new to this forum - this is my first post.
So today I went with a mate (male) to get some Dinner at a nearby restaurant.
As I parked my car i noticed that right-beside me were to HB5s (being generous), she opened her door and accidently hit my car. (didnt care too much about it, its a bomb). Anyways, she got out of her car, apologised etc... went on having a laugh with them as we walked to the Restauart.
One of the ladies gave away an IOI by saying 'you should note down her number plates' - i guess she was looking for an opener, so that was her line. I smiled it off, saying yes indeed, pulling funny faces and preting to write down her plates.
As we walked she said she comes there 'every day' - perfect for my 'what an exicting life u got' neg. It sank in perfectly.
So i hit her with another Neg, 'ur name is not Moe is it'? (Coz the Restaurnt is 'Lazy Moes'.)

Anyways, as I wasnt sure whether my mate was keen to join them (he has a gf), and whether those girls are meeting anyone there, and besides i wanted to just catch up with my mate, i did not proceed with sarging them.

We sat, finished dinner and walked back to the car. I was going to leave my bill/receipt from the restaurant on her windscreen, as a form of neg 'that she owes me for damaging my car'. However I did not want to leave my number (as per rules, do not give your number out, ask them for theirs). I wasnt keen on them anyways, because they were only HB5 (barely). My mate did not however understand why i would not leave my number there.

My explanation to him was: By Leaving my number there, i am digging myself a hole, in case she don't call/text, i will feel rejected by a HB5, meaning she would bring my confidence down. Like this i am doing the opposite, by showing her I am fun, approchable, understandable, and hard to get coz i did not leave my number there, but just a funny note. This ideally bring my confidence levels up as i basically rejected her. Yes I walk away without a number close, but I wasnt after her number anyways, as she did not match my standards.

Do you guys feel, that by perhaps rejecting someone, you ideally bringing ur confidence levels up??

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Yea dude I totally agree with you. Rejecting them was more an ego boost for yourself basically just palming off some HB5's simply because you can. Nothing wrong with it anything goes when it comes to an individuals confidence this is something im going to have to experiment with, never thought of rejection as a form of ego boosting before.

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