so ive definately found a sticking point, i find i can be the alpha guy in quite a lot of situations but last nite i was definately anything but. we ended up at a club and there was a hb 8 in our group who was the kinda chik that you knew the right guy could of picked up that nite with the right approach, she was def up 4 it. but i just had no idea. i was chatting 2 her a fair bit at the pre party flat, but i wasnt escalating found it difficult as she was kinda girl who knows shes hot.
at the club i hadnt built enough comfort beforehand for it be ok to dance with her properly, i need more club game aswell cos im shit at picking up women without speech. so many sticking points!
my question is, where should i begin? should i work on club game or should i work on comfort building and escalation during conversation? i dont want to try and do it all at once, would rather get started on one first lol

my advice is flip a coin.. loll

but seriously do you have a pre party every time before you go clubbing? i know i dont so i would probs worry more about club game (i dunno what the clubs are like where your from) but good gamming clubs have outside areas, places where you can talk...

if you do have a problem with comfort building you should continue to fix it... but thats something you can learn and improve while running club game..

if a girl knows she hot or thinks shes ugly or has three tits you can always escalate the one exception to this is if they live in a bubble then you might have some trouble loll..

what do you mean by dance properly.."grinding" please dude if you can keep her talking she wont want to leave you.. even if its her favourite song .. your over thinking it just relax and take it easy...

hope that helps & good luck

For club game, I would say you watch Gambler's Stealth Attraction program.

This guy is a dude. He shows you how to raise your value in a venue so when you approach the girls, you are rejection proof and they are really glad you have come over to speak to them.

There's lots more like how to escalate, which sounds like one of your problems and then kiss (all this can be done in 30 seconds after comfort has been established)

The final part is getting her home into your bed right where you want her. Google the program and give it a watch. Personally this is the best stuff out there for club game