| I can tell you about my first time going out.
It was after I'd read The Game, and a little Mystery Method. I couldn't bare to go out and do it alone, so I went with some friends, only to eat some pizza, and hoping to find some girls. I was absurdely peacocked, cowboy's hat with sunglasses on it, along with red nail-polish on 3 of my fingers, with one leather glove.
I'll never forget that day. The dudes I went out with kept making fun of my hat telling me I was embarrassing them, and I just took it and smiled, asking constantly if they know where I can find girls (I wasn't a person who goes out much). So after we ate we went to sit at some place. Then I saw this 3 set walking, 3 girls. I smiled to everyone and asked if someone wanted to go along with me, and obviously the AFC answer was "With that hat? I don't want to be seen in public with you". So I smiled and approached, opened with an inderect opener and chatted for a bit with the girls. It seemed like they had the time so I suggested we sit on the bench near by. Needless to say the AFC's with me were stunned and I was the one surrounded by 3 HBs. :)
After about 20 minutes of conversation with them, where 3 of the AFCs who thought they were cool boys tried to AMOG me and failed one after the other, I decided to go for a number close with the girl and get back to them. Sadly, I was pulled away by a larger guy in my group who, I suppose felt jelous that I was able to approach and get a great reaction with the dumb har he was laughing at and the silly nail polish and all, while he could only watch.
So, after 2 more sets I'd opened the same way, one wasn't succesful and the other was, the AFCs began fighting who got the hat to wear because they suddenly thought it was a cool hat and apperantly made girls react to it. One guy even asked me for private lessons. I was shocked and had a lot of fun. It's always fun to stick it to the AMOGs who claim to think they can get a girl but are actually terrefied.
My point is simple: Go out there, don't give a fuck, become caveman. Just walk up to girls and talk to them, it's something they want and something they like. A faliure is always there waiting, but you need to learn from it! Hope to hear good news on your first sarge.
Good luck!
-Kem
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