| So I met this girl at a party last saturday night. I was honestly pretty tipsy when it happened, but I think I started off with the "You've got lint on your shirt line" I don't really remember much but I guess it went well, being we exchanged numbers. I texted her immediatly writing "youre cute" to which she responded "youre charming" I texted her the next night at about 1, to which she responded around 8 in the morning. We texted for a while, and I was watching this VH1 thing with PUA's and the guy uses a line something like "youre like my little sister, I want to climb trees with you" or something like that. Anyways, since shes older than me, I think "hey maybe I'll try it in reverse...so I write "you can be like my big sister and take me out for activities"....haha, to which she responded "that's just disturbing". So i kind of panicked I guess and was like, "well, I just want to be pals! what does age difference have to do with being pals!" we ocntinued to text and I asked her (excuse me, told her) we were going to a movie that monday night. she said she was busy, but maybe tuesday or thursday would work. I texted her thursdays good. I retexted her thursday morning, saying "movie at 950. lets meet for a coffee first.(location) Ill be sitting in the back left corner wearing a tuxedo and a fedora". to which she wrote "haha, cant wait"
So I go to meet her around 9, get there a little early and she's already there. Since I'm new to the game and I wasn't completely sure what this girls religious restrictions were I felt a little uncomftorable doing kino, so when I first saw her I decided I was going to give her a hug, but when I did it was still a little awk. I said let's sit down for a minute, and we talked, then we ordered, then we continued to chat...everything was going nicely in terms of conversation. I keep hearing hwo important kino is here, but I felt so awkward thinking about reaching my hands across the table to grab her handa nd tell her something! I thnk if it wouldnt have been a religious girl I mightve been more comftorable....
So, we go to the movie(shutter Island. I thought a semi scaryish movie would be a good idea. and i really fuckin love martin scorcesse. thats honestly half the reason I wanted to go anyways) and sit down in seats I pick out. I thought of this line before I left, something like "I'm scared. I think im gonna need you to hold my hand". So I think where I went wrong was saying that line during the previews, and i said it like "if i do get scared youre going to have to hold my hand"...so I felt I coulodnt do it then and then I killed my opener for kino. I thought just grabbing her hand in the middle and being like "im scared"...but i mean, im not a little bitch! and I really wasnt sure how shed respond to physicality...I think I was scared about how she would respond, but maybe if it wasnta religious girl I wouldve been more comfortable. maybe not. I guess I'll see.
So, thourhgout the movie I wsa being pretty funny, then when it ended we were talking in the theatre till the credits rolled and a little while after. I got up and was like "lets go" and we left. When we got outside she reallized she forgot her phone and we had to go back up to get it.
So we had been talking about how I was going to get back to my place, and she;s like "I can give you a ride if you need one" to which I responded "no, i dont want to make you go out of your way" as I walked her to the garage and as the guy pulled up her car she was like "are you sure you dont want a ride home" and i was like "ya, no im fine, I dont want to make you go out of your way." O, and important; throughout the whole night she kept calling us "friends" because of the text I guess, and when we were buying movie tickets (we bought seperately), when she first bought she showed the woman her ID, and then the employee is like "o sir, you dont have to show me your ID bc youre with someone over 21. shes like your guardina" to which she responded "ya, hes my little brother". as we walked away from that im like "you are so embarrased!" anyways.....
back to the car. she's like "are you sure I dont want a ride home", I say ya, she goes "so thanks for the movie friend" and I go "ya you were...an allright person to go with"kind of playfully, haha, to which I think she really took offense....then im like, sarcastically "no, no it was great". I think she was a little upset....anyways she drove away and I walked back to the subway.
So a couple things. a. her being religious made me very hesitatnt in going for the lay. I did not know how she would have responded to me making a move. I was going to pull the "o, theres this video I got to show you!" ro something like that once we got there...but again, I didnt know how she would respond! o, and also fuckin hysterical...she was a teacher in my roommates school! like, the person who I share a room with! isnt that fucking crazy! I couldve, well maybe, gotten tugged by my roommates teacher! she got reaaaly red when I brought up who my roommate was when she told me where she had worked at....ok and b. I think....I dont really think Iwas attracted to her so much! Her being 25 and my roommates teacher def gave me some appeal, I really just wasnt feeling it though!
So thats where I am. what do you guys think? should I have gone for it anyways? should I have pushed for more kino? hell, should I call her and ask her for another date. Even now im still not regretting that I didnt really attemot a move. Let me know what you guys think! thanks PUA's!
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