so i met up with two buddies of mine at the mall one of em is shy n the other one is more confident and always picks up well i never seen him do it but he always says he does. anyways so we meet up and we go walking around the mall for a bit we had like an hour till the mall was gonna close i was confident but nervous cause i had never done this before but i was determined we didnt see anything worth going up 2 so we decided to go to forever 21 so we go in there we walk for a lil but they was all young so then we decide to go 2 the 2nd floor n i spot a hb8 she worked there..i thought to myself im a go talk to her but then i got the AA totally failed on the 3sec rule so we walked around for a bit then i bet my friend that i was gonna talk to her n he would have to talk to a girl i chose for him he said he was down so we walked back torward where she was then i seen her helping out customers so i decided to wait the setting wasnt right so we made another walk around then i seen she was working on a rack of clothes with a guy coworker so i went up to her (from behind ) i kinda think about it now n wish i had came from the side but oh well.so i go up

me: excuse me i dont mean to interrupt but i was wondering i need a girls opinion maybe u can help me out

hb8: sure with wht?

me: i want to buy something for my friend but i dont know what to get her (smiling)
( i noticed she kinda fixed her hair ) IOI

hb8:do u know what her style is ?

me: no not really lol... she changes her style all the time

hb8: well we have these (she started showing me different stuff they had )
does she go clubbing ?

me:yeah she does

hb8: well these r cute for the club (she started telling me she sees girls in the clubs wearing dresses from her store)

me:so do u go clubbing ?

hb8: yeah i do
neg her about being a party girl

asked her what club she goes to then asked her if she ever been to v2o she said no i told her i was going that night cause i got a friend that knows the club promoter and she always gets us in for free (dhv) then asked me if she wears dresses i said yeah sometimes she took me to some dresses i asked her what would you buy she said she liked some dresses by the corner so we went to look at them then i grabbed it ( i think i should just said here let me something n put the dress on her)

me:i dont mean for this to sound weird but can u put the dress on top so i can see what it looks like

hb8 : do u want me to try it on ?

me: whoa slow down i just met you
she laughed then she put it on top she looked good!!! then she kinda posed a little i neg her about that got a good reaction

i pretty much had her laughing a lot which was a good sign so then just i told her well thanks for the help kinda turned my body to the side like i was gonna leave then she said oh well we have this other stuff over there kinda like stalling like she wanted to spend more time talking to me so then she showed me some more stuff. so i asked her what her name was then i told her my name and shook her hand as we were walking (kino? ) i told her she was a great help and that i was gonna write a good comment about her she laughed smiling at me alot then i told her my friend was throwing a house party then next day since she likes to party that she should come so she said she to close the next day i told her well the party dont start till late so i told her ill give her my number but she said that she didnt have her phone cause she was on the floor so i told her to give me hers so i was handing my phone to her so she could punch it in but she said she didnt want to get in trouble so i saved her number then i told her i would txt her tomorrow

overall i think i did well i txt her today like around 1230 while i was at work
me: hey whats up ?
hb: nothing much
me: i wish i was doing nothing but im at work
hb: oh
me: but its been interesting i been noticing girls clothes now because of you lol
hb: sorry to say this but whos dis?
me: its ____ i met u last night u helped me pick out something for my friends gf

she never replied back so i dont know what to think should i txt her about the party later? or txt her tomorrow ? its really odd cause it felt like we had a vibe the night before and if she didnt wasnt interested she wouldnt of given me her number or said she had a bf so i dont know any feedback would b appreciated.... im a go to another mall tonight n try to get another number lol....

hmmm that is a tough one dude and I am no expert, but it sounds like she either gave you someone elses number or she gave it then changed her mind about you. I would count it as a practice session and leave it at that. If she was keen she would have at least texted back or something.

I have had the same thing happen to me, got all the IoI's she kino'd me, got her number and everything, waited a few days then texted her, and she totally blew me off. Shit happens man. All the best on the next one!

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Yeah maybe ur right I'm a try n txt her tonight about the party if she don't reply then oh well it was good practice

That seemed to be pretty good conversation, but I guess you didn't have enough IOIs to ask her for a number. And to be honest, I personally don't use any negs in talking with normal pretty girl, so negs in that situation can create a DLV so she loses interests.
But, practice goes first! And every approach counts to experience! Good job.

And remember, there always 3,4 mld women in the world to be picked-up ;- )

I think you did great for a start, but it does sound like she's just blown you off, there will always be girls like that, happned to me today and that was off a really good kiss-close last night, so forget it and try again,


Best of luck

i agree thanks alot for the feedback