hi guys.i am naturally a shy guy.met this girl at orientation at my workplace.was shy to talk to her but eventually exchanged some words.the next day i overheard her saying to another collegue of mine that she come to work via public transport.she was complaning about how its a bitch to commute to work having to change trains 3 times every 10 minutes bla bla bla.too packed bla bla bla.she stays relatively near to my place.8 mins by car.

and then the unbelievable happened.i dont know where i got the balls from but i offered to drop her back after work and pick her up in the mornings before i go to work just so she can avoid the dreaded public transportation. to my delight, she complied and said yes. we exchanged numbers and i picked her up the next morning.we talked about general stuff. dont know if there were any IOIs but i reckon thats too early ? i dont know.im new to this GAME.i dropped her back.

i dont know what else to say.what can i say to get her to go on a date with me ? anything fresh ? she is a quiet person by nature and can be quite shy and doesnt talk much.

IOI's are just that, indicators of interest, it's never too early. Have you actually been gaming her (according to PUA standards), or just went your natural self? It'll be a lot easier for us if you translated your interactions so far into some PUA terminology. (Did you Kino at all, did she shit test you, is there a LJBF vibe going on or is there some healthy tension?)

Quiet and shy can also mean she just wants you to take the lead first. (When I first started, I got myself into a few situations where I almost could not stop myself from going "WTF!" out loud, because the most "quiet and shy" girls, after an hour or so, would be talking about sex, and how her ex-bf this and that (shit-test) blablabla.) I'd first try and see where you're at right now. (Is she interested in you?) You probably have to give us some more information before you can get some really good advice.

Though what you can do, is if you're going to pick her up again, call her beforehand and say you'll pick her up 30 minutes early, and go get some coffee with her. (I woke up this morning, and just had this urge to go to this really nice coffee place, you're coming with, you'll like it.) There's your first short 'date'. Same can be done after work, on your way to the car you get something to drink, sit down blabla (If you hit it off, you can even transition this after-work short date, into an actual full blown date. If you're hitting it off "Wait, are we on a date right now?", "In that case..." and you take her somewhere else blabla)

These short 'dates' actually don't require her to make any decisions whatsoever, she does not have to say yes to a 'date', so these are basically fail proof and great if you don't know where you're at or if she's really shy.

Let us know how the situation progresses, and good luck. (If you're naturally shy, you took a big leap in the right direction by offering to drive home and pick up a girl for work. Keep it up.)
-Zero

i sent her home yesterday and i kinda NEG her.i told her that she looks adorable when she laughs becaues her nose wiggles.she didnt seem to get the joke and i ended up saying sorry via text when i got home.she might get offended.im from south east asia and she is from a rural town and she is chinese educated(doesnt have a really good command in english) i told her sorry if i offended you but i meant it when i said that she is adorable.she then replied...its okay no need to say sorry no big deal.and then i blatantly said that no big deal that u are cute ? you must be very good at being cute. she then changed the topic.does this mean she doesnt get my joke ?

didnt pick her up today because she said that her cousin will drop her at work.texted her at work to see if she wanted to have lunch.she replied saying that she is having lunch with her collegue knowing that she hates the food at the cafeteria.

im stuck ! help.she doesnt seem to be interested