Hey guys,

Picked up this HB 9 MILF in May. We only met that one day that I number closed her and had a short instant date. Since then we've been exchanging emails, usually during the late hours of the night. A lot of pillow talk.

This girl is married. She told me she's Christian. I told her I was Christian too (to align values) and that I work in the Christian community. The part about my work is true, but as for Christianity, I think it's mostly a crock of shit. Sorry, don't want to get into a religious debate here.

This girl totally fell for me. It was like instant physical, animal attraction when we met. I get her texts every night. She comes on very hot and heavy.

Finally, she asked me to meet her again. But there was a catch. She said that her childhood priest, who she said she respects greatly, had come into town and that she was going to meet him for only half an hour and that she wanted me to come and meet him too and then the two of us could talk alone.

I really couldn't figure out what her motive for me to meet her childhood priest was. At any rate, I didn't want anything to do with it, so I made up some bullshit excuse as to why I couldn't meet the priest, but told her to text me after she was done meeting him and that we could then talk alone.

Apparently this was a big let down for her. When she got home that night she sent me the following email:

Sorry that I couldn't meet you today. I've just gotten home. I don't have any ulterior motive for you to meet my priest. It's just that he knows me inside and out and I wanted you to meet him so that he could tell you what kind of person I am. Also, you said you work in the Christian community so I thought you guys would have something to talk about.

Even though I have a husband and you are 10 years younger than me, on that day we met, I fell in love with you. On that day I was more nervous than I could ever imagine. My heart was beating out of my chest. On that day I felt a pang deep down inside of me, something that had been long forgotten and something that you made me feel again: that I am a woman.

I have prayed to god and asked him why he is putting me through this. But because I have been baptized I cannot have an affair. This has been a big conflict in my heart.

If you believe in God too, can you understand my feelings? The truth is, my feelings for you are more that you probably realize.

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My question: Where do I go from here? Obviously the main thing I am focused on is that she "says" she cannot have an affair. But if you read between the lines she says she cannot have an affair because she has been baptized. So my main obstacle here is how to resolve that conflict in her mind. This seems like a very tough puzzle to solve. My first instinct is to just discredit Christianity and tell her that it was made up by a bunch of beta-males who wanted to control society so that they could have access to the females. But I can't knock her religion. If I do that she will lose attraction for me. What the hell can I do?

If it were me, I'd just bail.

You've only actually met once, right? Seems like a big pain in the ass, with all the emails and texting, and now she wants you to meet her priest??? WTF?

Is she looking for some kind of validation from her priest, like he'll tell her it's okay to have an affair? You know that ain't gonna happen.

Is she trying to get some kind of commitment from you if she goes ahead with the affair? That does't seem like you're looking for.

If you're just trying to get laid, no matter how hot she is it doesn't seem worth the trouble. Maybe if she was good to go, but obviously she isn't yet. How much time do you want to put into this??