Last night was another good practise session. It was my housemates leaving party. I started straight away in a pub with a 3 set. Then neg’d the bar maid which thereafter started giving me the eye. My mate said go talk to a 10 set of just men and I did just to see how the conversation would go and it was fine.

It takes me me about 3 sets to warm up properly which I think is paramount.

I don’t even get approach excitement anymore. In the club within 10 minutes I sarged a 3 set with ‘who lies more’ and got chatting. It was really easy, I left stupidly without getting their numbers as I was going to talk to them later but forgot. They even wanted to share a cab home with me.

I practised so many routines on girls, even after I found out they had BF’s. I’m starting to get better at them. I had a couple of cold shoulders but I was having a great night anyway so it didn’t matter. It all about practice.

As we were leaving the club a bouncer was being a complete knobjocky to some guy so we started sticking up for him. Next to the bouncer was some HB 8 with a major bitch shield. She sarcastically said “nice trouser” to me. They were quite flamboyant. ☺ The guy I was standing up for said he liked them and a few other people did. Then she said “who asked for your opinion” to the guy. I said I did and a few others did as well. Then I just calmly said

Me: you have a nice act but you’re not fooling me
HB: what?
Me: I know you are just a little insecure girl who needs a hug…
HB: what you on about ( timidly)
ME: I feel for you. You just need a hug. Its ok.
HB: what. I feel for you! ( aggressively)
Me: its ok. I understand. You don’t need to be like that. Have a good night and all the best.

Then I just walked away. She was mute because I was right. What I got from the interaction is that I am starting to understand girls so much more. How they behave and why they behave like they do.

My frame was so strong that I could talk to anyone and have a good time and anyone who didn’t want to was loosing out.

Yeah that is probably the biggest factor I think anyone has working for them. If your frame is right and you don't get knocked off by shit tests or jerk offs then it becomes very appealing to people around you.

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"Behold, I am sending you out as sheep in the midst of wolves, so be wise as serpents and innocent as doves." -Matthew 10:16